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\n N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r tez \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr?
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\n M\u0259\u015fhur na\u011f\u0131l\u0131m\u0131zda, T\u0131q-t\u0131q xan\u0131m (b\u0259zi versiyalarda P\u0131sp\u0131sa xan\u0131m v\u0259 ya Dozanqurdu d\u00fcz xatun) \u201c\u018fr\u0259 gedir\u0259m, \u0259r\u0259 gedir\u0259m, \u0259r olmasa, gora gedir\u0259m\u201d s\u00f6zl\u0259rini Si\u00e7an b\u0259yl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fana q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259krarlay\u0131r. Na\u011f\u0131lda \u0259r axtaran ba\u015f q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131n \u201c\u0259r-gor\u201d dilemms\u0131 adi qafiy\u0259dirmi? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, yox. H\u0259tta bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u0259 var: Q\u0131z onbe\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda ya \u0259rd\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259k, ya gorda. Az\u0259rbaycan kulturas\u0131 patriarxalla\u015fandan b\u0259ri, qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olum-\u00f6l\u00fcm, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik-b\u0259db\u0259xtlik m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri, dem\u0259k olar ki, \u0259r-gor kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fclm\u0259kd\u0259dir. Bir vaxtlar \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n dal\u0131nca da\u015f at\u0131rd\u0131lar ki, bu da\u015f kimi d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn yerd\u0259 qal, n\u0259 el\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u00f6z, er evind\u0259n bir d\u0259 gor evin\u0259 get. \u018fr-gor dilemmas\u0131 qad\u0131n ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra daha da ciddil\u0259\u015fir; \u0259rind\u0259n \u00fcz d\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259n qad\u0131n, \u201cgor\u201du g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn qaba\u011f\u0131na g\u0259tirm\u0259lidir: \u201cKi\u015fi x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 s\u0259bir, qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 q\u0259bir\u201d.\n<\/p>\n
\n Sevgil\u0259r d\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n el\u0259 \u201c\u0259r-gor\u201d t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il qabaq Aytac adl\u0131 bir q\u0131zdan r\u0259dd cavab\u0131 alan \u201ca\u015fiq\u201d, onu bu m\u0259ntiql\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc: \u201cYa m\u0259nim olmal\u0131san, ya da torpa\u011f\u0131n\u201d.\n<\/p>\n
\n 17 ya\u015fl\u0131 G\u00fcl\u0259r adl\u0131 g\u0259nc q\u0131z\u0131 da bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259r-gor dilemmas\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qoydular. G\u00fcl\u0259r goru se\u00e7di…\n<\/p>\n
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\n Dini-patriarxal atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rimizd\u0259 \u201cq\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u201d haqq\u0131nda t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259r
\n <\/b>\n<\/p>\n
\n N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r tez \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr? Yaxud, niy\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015f q\u0131z, ya da ail\u0259siz qad\u0131n b\u0259db\u0259xt say\u0131l\u0131r? Bu t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn izl\u0259rini \u201cq\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u201d il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 deyiml\u0259rimizd\u0259 axtaraq.\n<\/p>\n
\n Atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 deyiml\u0259r b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya xalqlar\u0131nda m\u00f6vcuddur. Onlar min ill\u0259r boyunca bir xalq\u0131n t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 v\u0259 bilikl\u0259rini, psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sini, d\u00fcnyaya yana\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6y\u00fcd-n\u0259sih\u0259tl\u0259rini, q\u0259libl\u0259nmi\u015f stereotipl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 ed\u0259n folklor yarad\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar kollektiv yadda\u015f\u0131n \u015fifahi olaraq, a\u011f\u0131zdan-a\u011f\u0131za \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259si v\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. Daim zaman\u0131 \u0259ks etdirdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 daha d\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259n v\u0259 elastiki olan atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri, dastanlar\u0131mzdan v\u0259 na\u011f\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7ox f\u0259rqlidir. G\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yatda tez-tez i\u015fl\u0259ndiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, d\u00f6vr\u00fcn ruhuna uy\u011fun g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 deyiml\u0259ri arxaikl\u0259\u015fib aradan qalx\u0131r, yenil\u0259ri yaran\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, haz\u0131rda bilin\u0259n atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rinin b\u00f6y\u00fck bir hiss\u0259si, patriarxal bax\u0131\u015f buca\u011f\u0131ndan bax\u0131laraq meydana \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b. Bu bax\u0131\u015f buca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259rs\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259sind\u0259 is\u0259 islam q\u0131l\u0131nc\u0131 \u0259v\u0259zsiz rol oynay\u0131b. (N\u00f6vb\u0259ti yaz\u0131da q\u0131z-qad\u0131n haqq\u0131nda t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259rimizin, milli d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 t\u0259rzimizin, d\u00fcyang\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn islama bula\u015fmayn ar\u0131-duru hal\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259dim na\u011f\u0131l v\u0259 dastanlar\u0131mzda ortaya \u00e7\u0131xaraca\u011fam.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u0130ndi is\u0259 baxaq g\u00f6r\u0259k o tayl\u0131-bu tayl\u0131 Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131m\u0131zda h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 istifad\u0259 edil\u0259n atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259, \u201cq\u0131z\u201d, \u201cq\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u201d nec\u0259 ifad\u0259 olunur.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu kateqoriyadan olan atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259, do\u011fulduqlar\u0131 andan q\u0131zla o\u011flan aras\u0131nda nec\u0259 k\u0259skin f\u0259rq qoyuldu\u011fu ifad\u0259 olunur:\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 O\u011flan do\u011fan \u00f6y\u00fcnm\u0259, q\u0131z do\u011fan d\u00f6y\u00fcnm\u0259.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 O\u011flan do\u011fdum \u00f6ydu m\u0259ni, q\u0131z do\u011fdum s\u00f6ydu m\u0259ni.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z ac\u0131, o\u011ful ba\u015f tac\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Qarda\u015f g\u0259ls\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131, bac\u0131 g\u0259ls\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131, qarda\u015f\u0131n qaba\u011f\u0131nda, bac\u0131 \u00f6ls\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z ged\u0259ridi, o\u011flan \u00fcr\u0259k ba\u015f\u0131d\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Kimin ki q\u0131z\u0131 var, belind\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259lm\u0259z s\u0131z\u0131 var. H\u0259m g\u00f6yd\u0259 n\u0259\u04bbs ulduzu var.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z ana kirg\u0259n\u0259sind\u0259 ip \u0259yir\u00fcr, o\u011ful ata s\u00fcfr\u0259sini salur.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z evind\u0259n o\u011ful buca\u011f\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u0259lin\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259m, o\u011flan \u0259lin\u0259 qay\u00e7\u0131 yets\u0259, al\u0259mi kor dutar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z ged\u0259r igid g\u0259tir\u0259r, o\u011flan ged\u0259r it g\u0259tir\u0259r. (Bu atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 o\u011flan v\u0259 q\u0131za yox, onlar\u0131n evl\u0259ndikl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bildirilir. S\u0131rf cinsiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 g\u0259lin\u0259 \u201cit\u201d, k\u00fcr\u0259k\u0259n\u0259 \u201cigid\u201d deyilir.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z a\u011fl\u0131, qaz a\u011fl\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z olmad\u0131, q\u0131zd\u0131rma oldu.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z dey\u0259r: q\u0131rx\u0131m \u00e7\u0131xmay\u0131nca m\u0259ni atmasalar, daha atmazlar. (Bu atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 yeni do\u011fulan q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n at\u0131lmas\u0131na v\u0259 ya \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259sin\u0259 i\u015far\u0259 edilir. Bu \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259 indi daha \u201cm\u0259d\u0259ni\u201d \u00fcsulla, selektiv abortlar vasit\u0259sil\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir. \u0130st\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fu\u015fdan sonra at\u0131lmas\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259si faktlar\u0131 da az deyil. \u0130ni\u015fil ba\u015f ver\u0259n bel\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri mediada g\u0259r\u0259yinc\u0259 i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131. L\u0259nk\u0259randa 6 g\u00fcnl\u00fck k\u00f6rp\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131, n\u0259n\u0259si t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n iyn\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 de\u015fik-de\u015fik edil\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, sonra quyuya at\u0131lm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. (\u015e\u0259kil.1)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 O\u011ful d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n \u00e7\u0259p\u0259ridi, qadam q\u0131z\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131na.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 O\u011flan g\u0259ldin, q\u0131z g\u0259ldin? (Bu atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 \u201co\u011flan\u201d v\u0259 \u201cq\u0131z\u201d hans\u0131sa g\u00f6zl\u0259nil\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rin poztiv v\u0259 ya neqativ olmas\u0131n\u0131 simvolla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r: \u201co\u011flan g\u0259lm\u0259k\u201d xeyir x\u0259b\u0259r\u0259, \u201cq\u0131z g\u0259lm\u0259k\u201d b\u0259d x\u0259b\u0259r\u0259 i\u015far\u0259dir.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z do\u011fuldu, dedi bura bizim evimiz deyil.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z anadan olanda g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7ar, dey\u0259r: \u2013 Bura bizim ev deyil.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 qoy be\u015fiy\u0259, cehizini qoy e\u015fiy\u0259.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z qundaqda, cehizi sand\u0131qda.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131znan q\u0131z\u0131l \u2013 gizlin g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z g\u0259r\u0259k, gizli g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131n b\u0259l\u0259kd\u0259, g\u0259linin g\u0259rd\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn odunu almaq g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131zsan ucuz olma, q\u0259drini bil. (Y\u0259ni, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 baha sat\u0131lma\u011fa haz\u0131rla.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z q\u0131z\u0131ld\u0131, q\u0259drini bilsin g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rin qaba\u011f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xmaz.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 oturu\u015funa-duru\u015funa fikir ver\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 a\u011f\u0131r oturar, batman g\u0259l\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 qarda\u015f\u0131na qulluq eliy\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 o\u011flanlarla dan\u0131\u015fmaz.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 b\u0259rkd\u0259n g\u00fclm\u0259z.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259si \u00e7\u0131xmaz.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z oxutmaq g\u00fcc olur.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 H\u0259yal\u0131 q\u0131z g\u0259zi\u015finn\u0259n b\u0259llidi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259y\u0259n, dizini d\u00f6y\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z evin qona\u011f\u0131d\u0131, vaxt g\u0259l\u0259r, ged\u0259r\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u00f6zg\u0259 \u00e7\u0259p\u0259rin\u0259 qonar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z k\u00f6\u00e7\u0259ri qu\u015fdu.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u00f6zg\u0259 \u00e7\u0131ra\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yand\u0131rar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u00f6zg\u0259 \u0259man\u0259tidi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u00f6zg\u0259 yuma\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259ndi, o\u011ful yurdu g\u00fcd\u0259ndi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131n V\u0259t\u0259ni olmaz.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z g\u0259ldi, ged\u0259rdi.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u201cqonaq\u201d, \u201ck\u00f6\u00e7\u0259ri qu\u015f\u201d, \u201cg\u0259ldi-ged\u0259r\u201d olduqlar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, onlara \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t m\u0259nas\u0131zd\u0131r; q\u0131zdansa o\u011flan\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb ona s\u0259rmay\u0259 qoymaq, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, t\u0259hsil verm\u0259k daha faydal\u0131 olard\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na qoysan, ya hoqqabaza ged\u0259r, ya da a\u015f\u0131\u011fa.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na qoysan, ya halva\u00e7\u0131ya ged\u0259r, ya da zurna\u00e7\u0131ya.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018fzizin\u0259m q\u0131z q\u0131za, O\u011flan q\u0131za, q\u0131z q\u0131za, O\u011flan q\u0131zsa tez s\u00f6n\u0259r, Vay odur ki, q\u0131z q\u0131za.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z g\u0259r\u0259k, tez g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Evd\u0259 \u043eturanda ki\u00e7ik q\u0131z, \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck q\u0131z.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z onbe\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda ya \u0259rd\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259k, ya gorda.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018fr g\u0259r\u0259k, t\u0435z g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z ki, k\u0259kil \u00e7\u0131xartd\u0131, g\u0259r\u0259k birin\u0259 verib ba\u015f\u0131ndan eliy\u0259s\u0259n.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z ki iyd\u0259 \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259yi iyl\u0259di, evd\u0259n iyisini k\u0259s.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z y\u00fck\u00fc, duz y\u00fck\u00fc.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n sat\u0131l\u0131q mal kimi bazara \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6vr, \u0259n h\u00f6rm\u0259tli v\u0259 urvatl\u0131 oldu\u011fu m\u0259qam \u2013 el\u00e7i g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259 m\u0259qam\u0131ndan s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedir.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z anas\u0131 el\u00e7i g\u00f6zl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z evi \u2013 \u015fah evi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z evi \u2013 naz evi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z a\u011fac\u0131, qoz a\u011fac\u0131, h\u0259r g\u0259l\u0259n bir da\u015f atar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z dediyin a\u011facdak\u0131 almad\u0131, kim salar, o da aparar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z qap\u0131s\u0131 \u2013 \u015fah qap\u0131s\u0131, mini g\u0259l\u0259r, biri raz\u0131 ged\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z evi bir d\u0259yirmand\u0131r, arpada g\u0259lir, dar\u0131da g\u0259lir.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131zl\u0131 ev\u0259 q\u0131rx at ba\u011flanar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z alan alana kimi, q\u0131z ver\u0259n \u00f6l\u0259n\u0259 kimi yalvarar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z alan g\u00f6z\u00fcyn\u0259n baxmas\u0131n, qula\u011f\u0131ynan e\u015fitsin.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z alan q\u0131zara-q\u0131zara g\u0259lm\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z alan\u0131n ya bir \u00e7uval q\u0131z\u0131l\u0131 g\u0259r\u0259k, ya bir \u00e7uval yalan\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z almaq \u04bbasar almaq kibidir.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z el\u00e7iliyin\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0259nn\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 olmayan\u0131n qap\u0131s\u0131na get. (Kas\u0131b q\u0131za a\u011fal\u0131q etm\u0259k daha asand\u0131r.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z k\u0259silm\u0259mi\u015f qarp\u0131za b\u0259nz\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z aparan\u0131 yuxu tutmaz.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z alanda g\u0259r\u0259klik, g\u00f6z qapal\u0131, qulaq a\u00e7\u0131q olmal\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z al\u0131rsan evd\u0259n al, eld\u0259n yox.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z g\u0259z\u0259n o\u011flan – aya\u011f\u0131 uzun, \u0259li a\u00e7\u0131q g\u0259r\u0259k, yar g\u0259z\u0259n q\u0131z – qap\u0131a\u00e7\u0131q g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u0259r\u0259 verm\u0259k bac\u0131lar i\u015fi deyil, hac\u0131lar i\u015fidi. (Raz\u0131l\u0131q q\u0259rar\u0131nda n\u0259inki \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n r\u0259yi, he\u00e7 \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n rolu olmamal\u0131d\u0131r, bu i\u015f sanball\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n \u201chac\u0131lar\u201d t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259lidir.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131 verdin mala, mal getdi, q\u0131z qald\u0131 lala.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131 vermis\u0259n, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 o\u011ful qazanm\u0131san. (Ancaq n\u0259 i\u015fdirs\u0259, g\u0259lin\u0259 q\u0131z kimi bax\u0131lm\u0131r.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131s\u0131n ism\u0259ti, atan\u0131n d\u00f6vl\u0259ti.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u00fcz q\u0131zardar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z q\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u015faha da verm\u0259z.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z g\u0259rd\u0259y\u0259 gir\u0259r, \u0259sli d\u0259 onda b\u0259ll\u0259n\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z gir\u0259r g\u0259rd\u0259y\u0259, kirtigi \u00e7\u0131xar \u00fcz\u0259. (Kirtigi: h\u0259qiq\u0259ti, i\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fc).\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018fr\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131zlar\u0131n dili alt\u0131nda q\u0259nd g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Qaraq\u0131z g\u0259lin oldu, \u00fcr\u0259yi s\u0259rin oldu.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018fr\u0259 getdi tay\u0131m-tu\u015fum, yerd\u0259 qald\u0131 yassar ba\u015f\u0131m.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018fr\u0259 getm\u0259k asand\u0131, \u0259r d\u043enu tikm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018frsiz q\u0131z s\u00fckans\u0131z g\u0259midi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018frsiz q\u0131z s\u043elan \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin anas\u0131na h\u0259m a\u011flar, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u201cgedir\u0259m\u201d dey\u0259r. (Toy g\u00fcn\u00fc g\u0259linin t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd\u00fcnd\u0259n b\u0259hs edilir)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin a\u015f bi\u015firdi, g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 ya\u015f bi\u015firdi.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin atda, qism\u0259ti yadda. (Zorla veril\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n toy g\u00fcn\u00fc ist\u0259klisin\u0259 qo\u015fulub qa\u00e7mas\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin atland\u0131, g\u00f6r kim\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131 ata mindirdil\u0259r, dedi: \u2013 Ya n\u0259sib!\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin g\u0259lin deyil, g\u0259ldiyi yer g\u0259lindi. (G\u0259linin m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259rat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 deyil, d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc evd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin getdik, \u00fcn g\u0259tirdik, umu-k\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00fcn g\u0259tirdik. (Burada \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n k\u00fcsk\u00fcn, depressiv h\u0259yat t\u0259rzind\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedir.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lin s\u0131nd\u0131ran qab\u0131n s\u0259si \u00e7\u0131xmaz. (G\u0259linin n\u0259inki \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn, h\u0259tta s\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 qab\u0131n da s\u0259si e\u015fidilm\u0259z.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lind\u0259n q\u0131z olmaz. (Ancaq o biri atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259 k\u00fcr\u0259k\u0259n\u0259 o\u011ful kimi bax\u0131l\u0131r.)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 G\u0259lini g\u0259rd\u0259kd\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 b\u0259l\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn odunu almaq g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z evl\u0259rd\u0259 tan\u0131nar, ip\u0259k d\u0259zgahda.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z\u0131n yeyi \u0259r evind\u0259, qaynanan\u0131n yeyi gor evind\u0259. (yeyi: yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131).\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan q\u0131z c\u0131qqadan baxar. (Q\u0131z\u0131n \u0259r evind\u0259 dustaq hala sal\u0131nmas\u0131)\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Evl\u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 q\u043ev\u011fal\u0131 \u043elar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Evl\u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n dili alt\u0131nda q\u0259nd g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Evl\u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131n qulaqlar\u0131 kar, dili lal, g\u00f6zl\u0259ri k\u043er g\u0259r\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 yeddi k\u00f6yn\u0259k \u0259ti vard\u0131, \u0259r evind\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r zing\u0259danl\u0131q el\u0259di ki, bir k\u00f6yn\u0259k \u0259ti qald\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z idim sultan idim, ni\u015fanland\u0131m, xan oldum, g\u0259lin oldum, qul oldum, aya\u011flara \u00e7ul oldum.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 Q\u0131z idim, geydirdil\u0259r \u0259br-v\u0259fa k\u00f6yn\u0259yini, ni\u015fanl\u0131yd\u0131m, geydirdil\u0259r z\u00f6vq\u00fc-s\u0259fa k\u00f6yn\u0259yini. G\u0259lin oldum, geydirdil\u0259r c\u00f6vr\u00fc-c\u0259fa k\u00f6yn\u0259yini.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u2013 \u018fr\u0259 g\u0435d\u0259n g\u043era g\u0435d\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, \u201cq\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u201d haqq\u0131nda matriarxal ke\u00e7mi\u015fimzd\u0259n qalan, q\u0131z\u0131-qad\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcks\u0259k d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259n atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 deyiml\u0259rimiz d\u0259 var. Ancaq g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn maskulin ab-havas\u0131nda onlar t\u0259s\u0259lli kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ger\u00e7\u0259kliy\u0259 uy\u011fun olanlar is\u0259 yuxar\u0131da veril\u0259n atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 deyiml\u0259rimizdir. \u201cQ\u0131z kimi\u201dliyin v\u0259 \u201carvad kimi\u201dliyin s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f yerin\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259dildiyi haz\u0131rk\u0131 zamanda h\u0259min atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n bel\u0259 \u00fcmumil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259l\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r: Q\u0131z\u0131n o\u011flandan d\u0259y\u0259rsiz olmas\u0131, q\u0131z do\u011fuldu\u011fu andan onu qul, qulluq\u00e7u kimi \u0259r evin\u0259 haz\u0131rlamaq, g\u0259ldi-ged\u0259r olu\u011funa g\u00f6r\u0259 \u201cona s\u0259rmay\u0259 qoyma\u011f\u0131\u201d m\u0259nas\u0131z saymaq, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, t\u0259hsil almas\u0131na imkan verm\u0259m\u0259k, onu gizli saxlamaq, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259-bay\u0131ra qoymamaq, onu daim n\u0259zar\u0259t alt\u0131nda saxlamaq, g\u00fcdm\u0259k, ona sevm\u0259yi qada\u011fan etm\u0259k, sev\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259min hissl\u0259ri \u201cq\u0131zm\u0131\u015fl\u0131q\u201d saymaq v\u0259 \u201cnamussuz\u201d h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r ed\u0259r, \u201dba\u015f\u0131a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131q\u201d g\u0259tir\u0259r dey\u0259, ondan m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r tez yaxa qurtarmaq, ona sat\u0131l\u0131q mal kimi yana\u015fmaq, onu bir t\u0259h\u0259r \u0259r\u0259 verib rahat n\u0259f\u0259s almaq. Ancaq maraql\u0131d\u0131r ki, atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rimizd\u0259 \u201c\u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k\u201d q\u0131zlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n \u0259sas qay\u0259si kimi verils\u0259 d\u0259, yen\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259 atalar s\u00f6zl\u0259rimizd\u0259n m\u0259lum olur ki, toydan sonra \u201c\u0259r\u201d evinin \u201cgor evi\u201dnd\u0259n el\u0259 d\u0259 f\u0259rqi yox imi\u015f.\n<\/p>\n
\n G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, G\u00fcl\u0259r bunlar\u0131 bilirmi\u015f…\n<\/p>\n
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N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r tez \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":84686,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_sitemap_exclude":false,"_sitemap_priority":"","_sitemap_frequency":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-196744","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-menim-fikrimce","infinite-scroll-item","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-33","no-featured-image-padding"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n