\n Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r yen\u0259 melanxolik \u0259hvaldayam. T\u0259biidir, \u00e7\u00fcnki pay\u0131z g\u0259lib. \u018ftrafda bir xeyli insan\u0131n depressiya d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fahidiy\u0259m. Ancaq \u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259ki bu hal\u0131 depressiv v\u0259ziyy\u0259t kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirmir\u0259m. Bu il bahar daxil olmam\u0131\u015f, q\u0131\u015f\u0131n son \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131nda depressiv halla q\u0131sa yax\u0131nl\u0131q oldu v\u0259 bitdi.\n<\/p>\n
\n O vaxtdan b\u0259ri h\u0259tta xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 \u0259hval\u0131m\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 tutma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 daxili sakitliyimi qoruyuram. \u0130nsanlarla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rim s\u00fclh s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259dir. Bunu b\u0259rpa etmi\u015f\u0259m. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r kobudlu\u011fuma v\u0259 ac\u0131 dilim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131mdak\u0131larla \u00e7oxlu konflikt ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131m. Davaya, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259y\u0259 meyilli biriy\u0259m. Bunun f\u0259rqin\u0259 varm\u0131\u015fam v\u0259 \u00e7ox \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr, islahat yolunu \u00e7oxdan tutmu\u015fam.<\/p>\n
H\u0259tta bil\u0259yim\u0259 m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ”daxili s\u00fclh”\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259nn\u00fcm etdir\u0259n l\u00f6vb\u0259r tattoosu (d\u00f6ym\u0259) da etdirmi\u015f\u0259m. G\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 olan v\u0259 biz\u0259 simvolik mesaj \u00e7atd\u0131ran n\u0259sn\u0259l\u0259rin olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Bil\u0259yimd\u0259ki tattooya baxd\u0131qca \u00f6z\u00fcml\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u0259hlill\u0259r apar\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259lir\u0259m.<\/p>\n
Bir \u015feyi d\u0259 d\u0259rk etmi\u015f\u0259m ki, insan\u0131n \u00f6z daxilind\u0259 s\u00fclh olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259qdird\u0259, o, \u0259trafla daim konfliktd\u0259 olur. \u018fslind\u0259 bir \u00e7ox \u015fey bizim daxili, y\u0259ni ruhi-psixoloji \u0259hval\u0131m\u0131zla \u0259laq\u0259dard\u0131r. \u018fhval\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 \u00fcmumi ovqat\u0131m\u0131z da \u0259traf m\u00fchitl\u0259 balansl\u0131 \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
\u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz-\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczl\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bilm\u0259diyimiz t\u0259qdird\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 g\u0259lib bizi xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259 bilmir. V\u0259 ya \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259n \u0259min olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z t\u0259qdird\u0259 dig\u0259r insanlarla, \u0259sas\u0259n d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 cinsl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimiz yax\u015f\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Son vaxtlar kli\u015fey\u0259 \u00e7evirilmi\u015f ifad\u0259ni bura da yazmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m – ”\u018ftraf\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, birinci \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fdir”.<\/p>\n
N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u015fablon olsa da, kli\u015fe s\u0259sl\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, bu ifad\u0259 aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 daimi qorumaqdad\u0131r. H\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 d\u0259bd\u0259dir. \u00c7\u00fcnki realla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259qdird\u0259, yerin\u0259 yetirilm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flanan andan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ayd\u0131n \u015f\u0259kild\u0259, sanki g\u00fcn\u0259\u015f kimi parlaq g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n
Filosoflar\u0131n, d\u0259rin v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 insanlar\u0131n \u0259sas devizin\u0259 \u00e7evirilmi\u015f h\u0259min prinsip \u00f6z i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 geni\u015f \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bilir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, t\u0259nb\u0259ll\u0259r v\u0259 passiv fazada \u00f6z yerini b\u0259rkitmi\u015f k\u0259sl\u0259r o i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259zd\u0259n g\u0259lirl\u0259r. Bu da n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259hz onlar\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r vermi\u015f olur. G\u00fcn\u0259\u015f i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, y\u0259ni o c\u00fcr faydal\u0131 \u015f\u00fcadan, enerjid\u0259n yay\u0131nanlar sa\u011flaml\u0131qla ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131rlar.
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\n D\u0259yi\u015fiklik g\u00f6z\u0259l hadis\u0259dir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, m\u0259n burda m\u00fcsb\u0259t\u0259 do\u011fru d\u0259yi\u015fikliyi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tuturam. D\u0259yi\u015fikliy\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 obyektiv yana\u015fa bilir v\u0259 m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin f\u0259rqin\u0259 var\u0131r. O, indiki v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti il\u0259 raz\u0131 deyil v\u0259 bu hal\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259na\u0259tb\u0259x\u015f hesab etmir. \u0130nki\u015faf yolunu se\u00e7ibs\u0259, o, art\u0131q bir add\u0131m ir\u0259lid\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
\u0130bn Sina deyirdi ki, bir insan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn kim oldu\u011funu bilirs\u0259, onu tan\u0131mayanlar\u0131n bar\u0259sind\u0259 dedikl\u0259rinin he\u00e7 bir m\u0259nas\u0131 yoxdur.\n<\/p>\n
\n Daxil\u0259n azad adam \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259trafdak\u0131lar\u0131n r\u0259yi o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131m\u0131r. O, ”camaat n\u0259 dey\u0259r” prinsipi il\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131y\u0131r. Prinsipl\u0259rini v\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini a\u015fkar edib v\u0259 onlara kor-koran\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyil. O, n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l anlay\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Yunan\u0131nstanda Zevsin o\u011flu Apollonun Delfi adas\u0131nda yerl\u0259\u015f\u0259n m\u0259b\u0259dind\u0259 divarda bel\u0259 bir yaz\u0131 var – “Nosce Te \u0130psum”, y\u0259ni “\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131”. R\u0259vay\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 Yunan\u0131nstan\u0131n yeddi b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u00fcdriki Apollonun m\u0259b\u0259dind\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131b, insanlar\u0131n ad\u0131na ona h\u0259diyy\u0259 olaraq divara “\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc Tan\u0131” \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259kk edibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Bu deviz Sokrat v\u0259 Aristotel kimi d\u00fchalar\u0131n da ideallar\u0131nda, n\u0259z\u0259riyy\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259liml\u0259rind\u0259 yer alan \u0259sas \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015fd\u0131r.
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\n \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131maq biz\u0259 n\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259r?<\/p>\n
Duy\u011fular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 idar\u0259 etm\u0259yi, dig\u0259r insanlarla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimizi sa\u011flam \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 saxlama\u011f\u0131, d\u00fcnyan\u0131 v\u0259 var olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u0259rk etm\u0259yi m\u0259hz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc tan\u0131ma\u011fa ba\u015flayaraq yoluna qoya bil\u0259rik. Bu, \u00e7ox unikal imkand\u0131r v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 m\u0259nal\u0131 etm\u0259yin \u0259n keyfiyy\u0259tli t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rind\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
B\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda biz\u0259 se\u00e7im verilib. Bir a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 sitatda buyuruldu\u011fu kimi – ham\u0131n\u0131n di\u015f f\u0131r\u00e7as\u0131 var, ancaq h\u0259r k\u0259s ondan istifad\u0259 etmir. Y\u0259ni, azad \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 se\u00e7imimizi ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik – ist\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc tan\u0131ma\u011fa ba\u015flayar v\u0259 bo\u015fluqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 dolduraraq, m\u00fcsb\u0259t\u0259 do\u011fru ir\u0259lil\u0259y\u0259rik, ist\u0259rs\u0259k d\u0259, he\u00e7 n\u0259yi vecimiz\u0259 almaz, bioloji h\u0259yat ya\u015fayar\u0131q.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131d\u0131qca \u0259traf m\u00fchiti daha yax\u015f\u0131 anlama\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. D\u0259rin\u0259 getdikc\u0259 daxilinin z\u0259nginliyinin f\u0259rqin\u0259 var\u0131r. Sonra orda tapd\u0131\u011f\u0131 var-d\u00f6vl\u0259ti d\u00fcnyan\u0131n, \u0259traf\u0131n daha yax\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u0259rcl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Payla\u015fd\u0131qca da \u0259trafa s\u0259p\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n miqyas\u0131 geni\u015fl\u0259nir v\u0259 ayd\u0131nlananlar da h\u0259min i\u015f\u0131q z\u0259rr\u0259l\u0259rini dig\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 paylama\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Bu mexanizm xo\u015f v\u0259 faydal\u0131 olan n\u0259sn\u0259l\u0259rin siray\u0259tedici ma\u015f\u0131n\u0131na \u00e7evirilir. O ma\u015f\u0131n qaranl\u0131qlarla m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 bizim labarotiraya v\u0259 h\u0259tta \u0259sas silah\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7evirilir.<\/p>\n
A\u011f\u0131r h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha da y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259yin yolu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcd\u0259rkd\u0259n ke\u00e7ir. \u0130\u015fin t\u0259zadl\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi h\u0259m d\u0259 odur ki, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131maq el\u0259 d\u0259 asan \u015fey deyil. Bu i\u015f z\u0259hm\u0259t v\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259s t\u0259l\u0259b el\u0259yir. Burda yen\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259 azad se\u00e7im imkan\u0131n\u0131 yada salmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Se\u00e7im etm\u0259k v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00f6z \u0259limizd\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
Yazd\u0131qlar\u0131mda hans\u0131sa “m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259k” niyy\u0259ti yoxdur. Xitab\u0131m \u00fcmumi qayray\u0131\u015flar\u0131 d\u0259rk ed\u0259n, \u015f\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r\u0259 meyilli insanlara adi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Faydal\u0131 informasiya m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sdir. Onu i\u00e7imd\u0259 saxlay\u0131b, dur\u011funla\u015fd\u0131rmayaca\u011fam.\n<\/p>\n
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\n Yaz\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llifin fikirl\u0259rini \u0259ks etdirir v\u0259 Meydan TV-nin m\u00f6vqeyi il\u0259 \u00fcst-\u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r.
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