\n Bu yax\u0131nlarda \u00e7ox pis x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259nmi\u015fdim. Soyuqd\u0259ym\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259nim\u0259 el\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259mi\u015fdi ki, x\u0259st\u0259likd\u0259n beynim d\u0259 dumanlanm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Hals\u0131zl\u0131qdan yataqdan dura bilmirdim. \u018fn sevdiyim m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259t say\u0131lan m\u00fctali\u0259 il\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ola bilmirdim. Kitab\u0131 \u0259lim\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb iki-\u00fc\u00e7 c\u00fcml\u0259 oxuyan kimi v\u0259ziyy\u0259tim lap a\u011f\u0131rla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. H\u0259m d\u0259 oxuduqlar\u0131m\u0131 he\u00e7 d\u0259rk ed\u0259 bilmirdim.\n<\/p>\n
\n X\u0259st\u0259lik, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimd\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 yad olan n\u0259sn\u0259l\u0259r yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u201cyaratmaq\u201d \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 \u201cm\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131rmaq\u201d ifad\u0259sini i\u015fl\u0259ts\u0259m, daha yerin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r. Ad\u0259t\u0259n tez-tez x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n biri deyil\u0259m v\u0259 immunitetim yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130ndi bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 bel\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131m, hal\u0131m\u0131 lap yaman el\u0259mi\u015fdi. \u201cM\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131rmaq\u201d m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini is\u0259 m\u0259hz onunla ba\u011flay\u0131ram ki, h\u0259min x\u0259st\u0259lik vaxt\u0131 \u0259trafa, m\u0259n\u0259 tamamil\u0259 yad t\u0259rzd\u0259 olan bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131m meydana \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fd\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u00c7ox q\u0259rib\u0259 idi, dem\u0259k olar ki, bizim telekanallarda \u00e7ox az rast g\u0259lin\u0259n m\u0259d\u0259ni, \u0259d\u0259bi v\u0259 intellektual verili\u015fl\u0259r xaric, ba\u015fqa \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 baxm\u0131ram. M\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn q\u0131c\u0131q yaradan v\u0259 ikrah hissimi qabardan \u201cman\u0131slar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n\u201d h\u0259yat v\u0259 yarad\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ist\u0259nil\u0259n sujet v\u0259 verili\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6t\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259r bel\u0259 salm\u0131ram. H\u0259min vaxtda is\u0259 bu prinsipim\u0259 yad ged\u0259r\u0259k, o c\u00fcr verili\u015f\u0259 tama\u015fa etmi\u015fdim. H\u0259m d\u0259 bunu el\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259s, el\u0259 \u015f\u0259stl\u0259 etmi\u015fdim ki, sanki \u00f6m\u00fcrboyu bel\u0259 verili\u015fl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259v\u0259skar\u0131 olmu\u015fam.\n<\/p>\n
\n Dem\u0259li, telekanallardan birind\u0259 s\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n yay\u0131mlanan man\u0131slar\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f ed\u0259n, q\u0131c\u0131q dolu olan bir verili\u015f\u0259 bird\u0259n g\u00f6z\u00fcm sata\u015fd\u0131. Ba\u015fqa vaxt bu verili\u015fin ad\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259, dilim\u0259 \u201cya\u011fl\u0131\u201d s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r g\u0259lir. \u0130ndi is\u0259 h\u0259min verili\u015fd\u0259n feyziyab olma\u011fa ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Apar\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259rd\u0259n birin\u0259 \u201cbirc\u0259 s\u0259ni d\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 ver\u0259 bils\u0259ydik\u201d tipli zarafat\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 g\u00fclm\u0259li g\u0259lmi\u015fdi. Bir saat \u0259rzind\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan \u201c\u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k\u201d, \u201cs\u0259n\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259rin evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131\u201d v\u0259 bu motivli dig\u0259r baya\u011f\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r mara\u011f\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kmi\u015f v\u0259 diqq\u0259timi ekrana c\u0259ml\u0259mi\u015fdi.\n<\/p>\n
\n H\u0259tta m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni Xatir\u0259 mahn\u0131 oxuyanda onunla bir yerd\u0259 z\u00fcmz\u00fcm\u0259 edirdim. \u00dcz\u00fcmd\u0259ki qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z key xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik ifad\u0259m yad\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131r. Az qal\u0131rd\u0131m yata\u011f\u0131mdan qalx\u0131b \u0259l \u00e7al\u0131m, Xatir\u0259ni alq\u0131\u015flay\u0131m.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u0130ndi ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri xat\u0131rlad\u0131qca, x\u0259cal\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir\u0259m. \u0130lahi, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 olmu\u015fdu? El\u0259 bil i\u00e7im\u0259 ba\u015fqa adam girmi\u015fdi.\n<\/p>\n
\n M\u0259n, televiziya kanallar\u0131m\u0131zda ged\u0259n man\u0131slara, kulinariyaya v\u0259 \u015fit zarafatlarla bol olan seriallara baxmamaqla, he\u00e7 c\u00fcr lov\u011falanm\u0131ram. Bu, birba\u015fa m\u0259nim \u015f\u0259xsi se\u00e7imimdir. H\u0259min verili\u015fl\u0259r m\u0259nim z\u00f6vq\u00fcm\u00fc ox\u015fam\u0131r, \u0259ksin\u0259, onu zorlay\u0131r v\u0259 m\u0259hv edir.\n<\/p>\n
\n H\u0259m d\u0259 zorlanan t\u0259kc\u0259 \u015f\u0259x\u015fi z\u00f6vq\u00fcm yox, h\u0259min telekanallar\u0131 izl\u0259yib, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t deqradasiyas\u0131 ya\u015fayan c\u0259miyy\u0259t v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas g\u0259nc n\u0259sil n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ridir. Bir \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 ki, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t defisit\u0259 \u00e7evirilirs\u0259, bu, atom m\u00fcharib\u0259sinin g\u0259tirdiyi f\u0259lak\u0259tl\u0259r q\u0259d\u0259r a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bir h\u0259ft\u0259 \u00f6nc\u0259, dostumuz Bilal H\u0259s\u0259novun \u201cFacebook\u201dda \u00e7ox \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc bir postunu g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Statusu oldu\u011fu kimi bura yaz\u0131ram: \u201cMarketd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm bir o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 (5-6ya\u015f) \u0259caib h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r edir. G\u00f6zl\u0259rin b\u0259r\u0259ldib, a\u011fz\u0131n quruya at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bal\u0131q kimi a\u00e7\u0131b-yumur, ba\u015f\u0131n silk\u0259l\u0259yir, \u0259ll\u0259rin yell\u0259dir. Tez-tez d\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131raraq deyir ki, “M\u0259nim ba\u015f\u0131m xarafd\u0131r, h\u0259\u0259, mama, m\u0259nim ba\u015f\u0131m xarafd\u0131r? \u018f, m\u0259n d\u0259liy\u0259mee, d\u0259liy\u0259m”. Anas\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc ki, m\u0259n v\u0259 sat\u0131c\u0131 u\u015fa\u011fa q\u0259rib\u0259 bax\u0131r\u0131q, g\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259k dedi ki, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc F\u0259lak\u0259t\u0259 ox\u015fad\u0131ree, F\u0259lak\u0259tin fanat\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu ki\u00e7ik, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 k\u0259nardan adi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n hadis\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r faci\u0259 notlar\u0131 g\u0259zdirir. \u00c7ox m\u0259yusedici hald\u0131r.
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\n Psixoloqlar qeyd edir ki, 5 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faq z\u0259kas\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 informasiyalarla v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 il\u0259 \u00f6z g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yinin \u0259sl xarakterik s\u0259ciyy\u0259l\u0259rinin b\u00fcn\u00f6vr\u0259sini qurur. Daha sonra g\u0259l\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259, t\u0259lim v\u0259 yana\u015fmalar 40-50 faiz t\u0259sirli olur.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u0130ndi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc televiziyada yay\u0131mlanan \u201cBozba\u015f pictures\u201din ciddi psixoloji problemi olan \u201cF\u0259lak\u0259t\u201d obraz\u0131na b\u0259nz\u0259d\u0259n h\u0259min u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n nec\u0259 f\u0259lak\u0259t da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz?\n<\/p>\n
\n \u0130\u015ftirak etdiyim bir yerli iqtisadi forumda h\u0259min teleserial\u0131n t\u0259\u015fkilat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan v\u0259 aktyorlar\u0131ndan biri olan \u0130lkin H\u0259s\u0259nliy\u0259 \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n bel\u0259 bir sual \u00fcnvanlam\u0131\u015fd\u0131m: \u201cBilirsiniz, c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u015e\u0259mi, \u015e\u00f6\u015f\u00fc v\u0259 F\u0259lak\u0259tl\u0259r (h\u0259min serial\u0131n q\u0259hr\u0259manlar\u0131n\u0131n adlar\u0131) peyda olub, art\u0131b? Sizin \u0259linizd\u0259 xeyli resurs var, n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259kdiyiniz serial vasit\u0259sil\u0259 insanlar\u0131 m\u00fcsb\u0259t \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259y\u0259n mesajlar verm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259, ordak\u0131 x\u0259st\u0259 t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcrl\u00fc obrazlar vasit\u0259sil\u0259 pul atma\u011f\u0131, yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r etm\u0259yi t\u0259bli\u011f edirsiniz?\u201d O, m\u0259n\u0259 cavab verdi ki, \u201cxalq \u00f6z\u00fc bizd\u0259n bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r ist\u0259yir\u201d. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf, \u0130lkin H\u0259s\u0259nli getdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona dey\u0259 bilm\u0259dim ki, xalq plastilin kimidir. Ona t\u0259sir, edib ist\u0259nil\u0259n formaya salmaq olar.\n<\/p>\n
\n Kitab v\u0259 m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti t\u0259r\u0259nn\u00fcm ed\u0259n \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m yap\u0131\u015fmasaq, f\u0259lak\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 xatir\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 bax\u0131b, feyziyab olmaqla, \u00f6z q\u0259brimizi \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz qazaca\u011f\u0131q…\n<\/p>\n
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\n Yaz\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llifin fikirl\u0259rini \u0259ks etdirir v\u0259 Meydan TV-nin m\u00f6vqeyi il\u0259 \u00fcst-\u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r.
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