{"id":186156,"date":"2017-08-21T00:57:15","date_gmt":"2017-08-21T00:57:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meydan.tv\/article\/qadin-kisi-munasibeti-2-ci-yazi\/"},"modified":"2017-08-21T00:57:15","modified_gmt":"2017-08-21T00:57:15","slug":"qadin-kisi-munasibeti-2-ci-yazi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meydan.tv\/az\/article\/qadin-kisi-munasibeti-2-ci-yazi\/","title":{"rendered":"Qad\u0131n-ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti (2-ci yaz\u0131)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\n I hiss\u0259ni buradan oxuya bil\u0259rsiz (
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\n Bu m\u0259qal\u0259min \u0259vv\u0259lind\u0259 qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi aras\u0131ndak\u0131 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti q\u00fcvv\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259n 5 n\u00fcansa toxunmu\u015fam. Orda da qeyd etdiyim kimi bu yaz\u0131mla birba\u015fa ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 xitab etmi\u015f\u0259m. T\u0259bii ki, yaz\u0131dan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n da yararlanma\u011f\u0131nda fayda var. \u201cT\u0259krar biliyin anas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k, h\u0259min \u0259vv\u0259lki ilk 5 \u00fcns\u00fcr\u00fcn ba\u015fl\u0131q ad\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 onlar\u0131n x\u0131rda anatasiyas\u0131n\u0131 bura yaz\u0131ram:\n<\/p>\n

\n 1.Realist ol!-M\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 oldu\u011fun adam\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rini nec\u0259 q\u0259bul etmis\u0259ns\u0259, onun m\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rini d\u0259 q\u0259bul el\u0259m\u0259yinin \u00f6n\u0259mini qeyd etmi\u015f\u0259m.
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\n 2.Partnyoruna h\u00f6rm\u0259t el\u0259!-Ad\u0131ndan g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi, m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 sevgi q\u0259d\u0259r vacib olan h\u00f6rm\u0259td\u0259n yazm\u0131\u015fam.
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\n 3.Probleml\u0259ri m\u00fczakir\u0259 et!-Burda partnyorunla h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 v\u0259 aqressiyas\u0131z probleml\u0259rd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b, onlar\u0131 yoluna qoymal\u0131 oldu\u011funu xat\u0131rlatm\u0131\u015fam.
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\n 4.H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 idar\u0259 edib, n\u0259zar\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma.-Total n\u0259zar\u0259tin nec\u0259 neqativ v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259yi n\u00fcanslar\u0131 sadalam\u0131\u015fam.
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\n 5.\u0130kinizin d\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 haz\u0131r ol!\n<\/p>\n

\n -Vaxt \u00f6td\u00fckc\u0259 insan t\u0259bii \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir. Bu d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r\u0259 haz\u0131rl\u0131q prosesind\u0259n yazm\u0131\u015fam.\n<\/p>\n

\n Bel\u0259likl\u0259, \u0259ziz h\u0259mcinsim, haz\u0131rsansa, qad\u0131n ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini q\u00fcvv\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259n dig\u0259r 5 n\u00fcans\u0131 da s\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131m. Getdik!\n<\/p>\n

\n 6.M\u00fcbahis\u0259 etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259n\n<\/p>\n

\n H\u0259, h\u0259, m\u00fcbahis\u0259! D\u00fcz g\u00f6rd\u00fcn. Ola bil\u0259r bu m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tim s\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ancaq d\u00fczg\u00fcn, sa\u011flam m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, sizin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizi n\u0259inki, q\u00fcvv\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259k, h\u0259tta xilas da ed\u0259c\u0259k. Psixoloqlar qeyd edir ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r 4 \u00fcns\u00fcr\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 korlan\u0131b, da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r:\n<\/p>\n

\n 1) Partnyorunun xarakterini davaml\u0131 t\u0259nqid etdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 (bura-t\u0259hqir, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti al\u00e7altmaq, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259m\u0259k aiddir).\n<\/p>\n

\n 2) \u00d6z g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rt-basd\u0131r etm\u0259k (h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f g\u00fcnahkard\u0131r, s\u0259ns\u0259 sanki m\u0259l\u0259ks\u0259n, he\u00e7 vaxt da s\u0259hv etmirs\u0259n, d\u00fcz deyil?)\n<\/p>\n

\n 3) T\u0259hqir (m\u00fcbahis\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259qiq\u0259y\u0259 s\u0259ngiy\u0259 bil\u0259r, ancaq m\u00fcbahis\u0259 vaxt\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259n\u0259n k\u0259lm\u0259l\u0259r partnyorunun beynind\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 \u00e7ox f\u0131rlanacaq)\n<\/p>\n

\n 4) M\u00fcbahis\u0259d\u0259n qa\u00e7maq(!) (n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ki, neqativ emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7ind\u0259 saxlay\u0131rsan, bu hal s\u0259ni daha b\u00f6y\u00fck qalmaqal partlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131racaq)\n<\/p>\n

\n Nec\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u00fcbahis\u0259 etm\u0259li?\n<\/p>\n

\n – Yeni m\u00fcbahis\u0259 vaxt\u0131 ke\u00e7mi\u015f m\u00fcbahis\u0259 m\u00f6vzunuzu, orda i\u015fl\u0259tdiyiniz xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z ifad\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 anlar\u0131 q\u0259tiyy\u0259n xat\u0131rlatma. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qald\u0131. \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259ni hans\u0131sa konkret situsasiya qane etmirs\u0259 v\u0259 bu hal narahat\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q yarad\u0131rsa, m\u0259hz o bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f. Yoxsa ki, h\u0259r \u015feyi qat\u0131b-qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rma\u011f\u0131n d\u00fcz olmaz. El\u0259 ets\u0259n, onsuz da problemi h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ksiniz, \u0259ksin\u0259, qalmaqal\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc uzadacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.\n<\/p>\n

\n – H\u0259, \u0259g\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t \u0259s\u0259bis\u0259n v\u0259 emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 saxlaya bilmirs\u0259n, m\u00fcbahis\u0259ni saxla, harasa \u00e7\u0131x g\u0259zi\u015f, sakitl\u0259\u015f v\u0259 geri d\u00f6n\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u00f6z xan\u0131m\u0131nla o bar\u0259d\u0259 yenid\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259rs\u0259n.\n<\/p>\n

\n – S\u00fcbut el\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ki, s\u0259n h\u0259r \u015fey d\u0259 d\u00fczs\u0259n. Naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 sakit \u015f\u0259kld\u0259 dil\u0259 g\u0259tir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin m\u00fcbahis\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, h\u00f6rm\u0259t hissini itirm\u0259 ki, situasiya daha da q\u0259lizl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin.\n<\/p>\n

\n – M\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7ma! S\u0259ni n\u0259s\u0259 narahat edirs\u0259, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259 konkret dan\u0131\u015f. Bel\u0259 ets\u0259n, qalmaqal tez aradan qalxacaq v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizd\u0259 bo\u015fluqlar olmayacaq. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, \u00e7\u0259ki\u015fm\u0259s\u0259n, b\u0259rki\u015fm\u0259rs\u0259n..\n<\/p>\n

\n 7. Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n\n<\/p>\n

\n Xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inan\u0131rsansa, dem\u0259li, s\u0259n \u00e7ox sad\u0259l\u00f6hv adamsan. Bu inam\u0131n illuziyadan ba\u015fqa \u015fey deyil. Bil ki, xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131q formala\u015fm\u0131\u015f xarakteri var v\u0259 onun da, s\u0259nin kimi d\u00fcnyaya \u00f6z bax\u0131\u015f prizmas\u0131 m\u00f6vcuddur.\n<\/p>\n

\n H\u0259m d\u0259 a\u015fkar \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 onu d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259 c\u0259hdin, q\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik \u0259lam\u0259tidir. Ehtiyatl\u0131 ol, bu, aran\u0131zda ciddi m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r yarada bil\u0259r. Bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni d\u0259rk et ki, siz f\u0259rqli insanlars\u0131n\u0131z. Onun m\u0259nfi \u015feyl\u0259ri d\u0259 olacaq. \u018fsas ortaq m\u0259xr\u0259c\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259yinizdir. \u00c7\u0259tin m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 deyil. Sad\u0259c\u0259 onu bu c\u00fcr \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamal\u0131san.\n<\/p>\n

\n B\u0259s, onu nec\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamal\u0131?\n<\/p>\n

\n -\u0130nc\u0259 m\u0259qam(!) M\u00fcbahis\u0259 qurtaran kimi, kimin haql\u0131 v\u0259 kimin g\u00fcnahkar olmas\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, n\u0259 d\u0259 bunu t\u0259hlil etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f! Neqativ emosiyalar\u0131 ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 saxlama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n. Bel\u0259 etm\u0259s\u0259n, h\u0259m v\u0259ziyy\u0259tiniz daha g\u0259rgin olacaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tiniz q\u0259tiyy\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 inki\u015faf etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n

\n – Xan\u0131m\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hans\u0131sa yax\u015f\u0131 \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r (bura h\u0259diyy\u0259, x\u00fcsusi jestl\u0259r d\u0259 aiddir) ed\u0259r\u0259k, ondan bu \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q verm\u0259yini g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259. Birincisi, bu ki\u015filikd\u0259n deyil ki, s\u0259n etdiyin yax\u015f\u0131 \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin hesab\u0131n\u0131 apar\u0131rsan, ikincisi, adam sevdiyi, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yax\u0131n bildiyi \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 etdiyi yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131qlardan dolay\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259z. \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n, x\u00fcsusi kateqoriya il\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259ns\u0259ns\u0259, – o kateqoriya ki, misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259n, onunla dala\u015fandan sonra, s\u0259n 5 d\u0259f\u0259 bar\u0131\u015fm\u0131san, o is\u0259 1 d\u0259f\u0259 buna c\u0259hd edib, – dem\u0259k ki, s\u0259nin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcqiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 il\u0259 ciddi probleml\u0259rin var. N\u0259s\u0259 el\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259n el\u0259 v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q da g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259. Bax, onda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259riniz d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 q\u00fcvv\u0259tli olacaq.\n<\/p>\n

\n – \u018fg\u0259r xan\u0131m\u0131n hans\u0131sa pis bir davran\u0131\u015f s\u0259rgil\u0259yibs\u0259, bu, o dem\u0259k deyil ki, o, bunu q\u0259sd\u0259n v\u0259 s\u0131rf s\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131lmaqdan \u00f6tr\u00fc edib. H\u0259r k\u0259s s\u0259hv\u0259 yol verir, biz ax\u0131 insan\u0131q. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni \u00e7ox \u015fi\u015firtm\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259k yoxdur.\n<\/p>\n

\n Ondan bu c\u00fcr h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 yol verm\u0259yinin s\u0259b\u0259bini soru\u015f, \u00f6z naraz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildir v\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni ba\u011fla.\n<\/p>\n

\n 8.Praqmatik ol.\n<\/p>\n

\n Praqma-yunan dilind\u0259n t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259d\u0259 \u201cm\u0259ntiq\u201d dem\u0259kdir. Bu g\u00fcn m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n az \u00e7at\u0131\u015fan \u015fey m\u0259ntiqdir. H\u0259yatda ideal \u015fey yoxdur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u201cideal m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u201d m\u0259hfumunu da unutmal\u0131san. Onlar\u0131 filml\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 kitablarda g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n. Real h\u0259yat ba\u015fqad\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259ntiqini i\u015f\u0259 sal\u0131b, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn v\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fccl\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edib, o g\u00fccl\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin d\u0259 enerjisind\u0259n d\u0259 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tiniz\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 istiqam\u0259t ver\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n. H\u0259, el\u0259 sual dolu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r var ki, onlar\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259rini m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin \u0259vv\u0259lind\u0259, b\u0259zil\u0259rini d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin ortalar\u0131ndan m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259lisiniz. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, siz g\u0259zinti v\u0259 s\u0259yah\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 hara ged\u0259 v\u0259 n\u0259 vaxt vaxt ay\u0131ra bil\u0259rsiniz? G\u0259lirl\u0259rinizi nec\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u0259li? Kim hans\u0131 \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259ri \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r? \u00dcmumi g\u0259lirinizd\u0259n h\u0259r ay s\u0259n v\u0259 s\u0259nin xan\u0131m\u0131n bir-birinizl\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz? Bu suallar v\u0259 n\u00fcanslar s\u0259n\u0259 c\u0259f\u0259ngiyyat v\u0259 bo\u015f \u015fey kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r, ancaq bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra formala\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu sistemin siz\u0259 nec\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck fayda ver\u0259c\u0259yini v\u0259 meydana \u00e7\u0131xacaq \u0259lav\u0259 suallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alaca\u011f\u0131na \u0259min olacaqsan. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 maddiyyatla ba\u011fl\u0131 yaranacaq m\u0259nfi situasiyalar\u0131n da qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alacaq. Bax, bu g\u00fcn bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi maddiyyatla ba\u011fl\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rdir. Bu faktd\u0131r! D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n ki, bu m\u00fczakir\u0259 v\u0259 onun h\u0259lli yollar\u0131 banal v\u0259 romantikadan uzaq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rdir, ancaq s\u0259n, sonra \u0259min v\u0259 rahat olacaqsan ki, sizin vacib suallar\u0131n\u0131za cavab tap\u0131l\u0131b, onlar h\u0259ll olub v\u0259 aran\u0131zda el\u0259 balans yaran\u0131b ki, iqtisadi probleml\u0259rin k\u0259skin m\u00fcbahis\u0259sin\u0259 enerjiniz getm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 siz m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizi daha sa\u011flam ed\u0259c\u0259ksiniz.\n<\/p>\n

\n 9.X\u0131rda \u015feyl\u0259ri yada sal.\n<\/p>\n

\n M\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizin \u0259vv\u0259lini yada sal, nec\u0259 ki, xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131rd\u0131n, ona g\u00fcll\u0259r ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131r v\u0259 hans\u0131sa g\u00f6z\u0259l komplimentl\u0259r s\u00f6yl\u0259yirdin. Ancaq sonra bu xo\u015f v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rin itdi, onlar\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259yi \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tsiz sand\u0131n v\u0259 romantika havaya sovuruldu. Bel\u0259 ki, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n vaxt ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u00e7ox vacibdir ki, ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetirdiyin bu x\u0131rda m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri yada salmal\u0131 v\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yenid\u0259n sevindirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131san. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, s\u0259n onu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmal\u0131, kinoteatra d\u0259v\u0259t etm\u0259li v\u0259 ya restoranda yem\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmal\u0131san. Olduqca vacibdir ki, bo\u015f olan kimi bir yerd\u0259 \u00e7oxlu vaxt ke\u00e7ir\u0259siniz. F\u0259all\u0131\u011f\u0131 art\u0131rmaq s\u0259nin \u0259lind\u0259dir. Bax, bu sad\u0259 f\u0259ndl\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizin tarixinin uzunlu\u011funa-q\u0131sal\u0131\u011f\u0131na baxmadan, ona yeni n\u0259f\u0259s verib, dir\u00e7\u0259ld\u0259c\u0259k. Bir d\u0259 burdak\u0131 dig\u0259r \u00f6n\u0259mli n\u00fcans sizin intim yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Unutma, intim yax\u0131nl\u0131q, siz\u0259 h\u0259m ruh\u0259n, h\u0259m d\u0259 fiziki c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k. Dey\u0259rdim ki, aran\u0131zdak\u0131 soyuqlu\u011fu aradan qald\u0131racaq \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 d\u0259rman seks ola bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 x\u0131rda m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259kc\u0259 s\u0259n yox, h\u0259m\u00e7inin s\u0259nin xan\u0131m\u0131n da yada salmal\u0131d\u0131r. Proses qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ondan sonra sizin \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinizin pozulma t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259si s\u0131f\u0131ra en\u0259c\u0259k.\n<\/p>\n

\n 10.Dal\u011fan\u0131 tutma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259n\n<\/p>\n

\n M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259ki dal\u011falar – d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r, qalxmalardan ibar\u0259t bir dal\u011fa… Bu hal h\u0259r bir normal c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ke\u00e7diyi bir prosesdir. Bu d\u00f6vrl\u0259r h\u0259r bir c\u00fctl\u00fck \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259ciyy\u0259vi ola bil\u0259r. Birind\u0259 bu d\u00f6vr bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn, dig\u0259rind\u0259 aylarla, bir ba\u015fqas\u0131nda is\u0259 ill\u0259rl\u0259 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018fslind\u0259 burda qorxulu he\u00e7 n\u0259 yoxdur. Bir halda ki, siz bu \u015feyi normal d\u00f6vri proses kimi q\u0259bul edib, o v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 ya\u015faya bils\u0259niz v\u0259 h\u0259r bir f\u0259rd \u00f6z partnyorunu d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259s\u0259, h\u0259m\u00e7inin problemi m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259ti hal kimi q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bils\u0259niz, h\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 inki\u015faf ed\u0259c\u0259k. Ancaq bir \u015feyi d\u0259 unutmaq laz\u0131m deyil ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn bu d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 qalxmalar, sizin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin keyfiyy\u0259tini \u0259ks etdirmir. Partnyordan hans\u0131sa biri d\u00fcy\u00fcnl\u0259nmi\u015f m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259b d\u00f6vr ya\u015fay\u0131rsa, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tiniz \u00f6z-\u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tdir. Bel\u0259 hallar\u0131 t\u0259bii q\u0259bul edib, s\u0259brli olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Q\u0131sa vaxtda h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. H\u0259r birinizin h\u0259yat\u0131na k\u00fclli miqdarda faktorlar t\u0259sir edir: i\u015f yerini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri v\u0259 dostlarla m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, bir yerd\u0259n ba\u015fqa yer\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7m\u0259l\u0259r, \u00e7\u0259tin maliyy\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 s. Maksimum \u015f\u0259kld\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ntiql\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131, \u00e7\u0259tin d\u00f6vrl\u0259r ya\u015fayan partnyorunu d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259m\u0259li v\u0259 bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131n q\u0259d\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259lis\u0259n. Bu yana\u015fma h\u0259tta \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc v\u0259 anlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da aradan qald\u0131racaq. \u018fn m\u00fch\u00fcm m\u0259qam odur ki, dal\u011fan\u0131, \u00f6z xan\u0131m\u0131nla birg\u0259 tuta bilm\u0259k bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131na yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259s\u0259n.\n<\/p>\n

\n Bel\u0259 olan halda s\u0259n, ke\u00e7irdiyiniz h\u0259r bir d\u00f6vrd\u0259n h\u0259zz ala bil\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n..\n<\/p>\n

\n \u018fziz h\u0259mcinsim, s\u0259n\u0259 u\u011furlar!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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