\n Bil\u0259nd\u0259 ki, t\u0259xmin\u0259n 8 ay yar\u0131m sonra \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131z olacaq, arvad\u0131mla q\u0259rara g\u0259ldik ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259k. \u018fvv\u0259ld\u0259n d\u0259 bel\u0259 q\u0259rar\u0131m\u0131z var idi, amma USM-\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259, h\u0259kim cinsiyy\u0259ti dem\u0259yi t\u0259klif ed\u0259nd\u0259 q\u0259rar verm\u0259k asan deyil. Biz q\u0259til\u0259\u015fdirdik v\u0259 USM-\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r iki t\u0259klifd\u0259 etiraz etdik (yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, Britaniyada hamil\u0259ni USM-\u0259 nadir hallarda g\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259r, bizd\u0259ki kimi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n 8 m\u00f6vs\u00fcml\u00fc serial\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kmirl\u0259r).\n<\/p>\n
\n D\u00fczd\u00fcr, s\u00fcrpriz olaca\u011f\u0131 da maraq qat\u0131rd\u0131 bu proses\u0259, amma s\u0259b\u0259b bu deyildi. S\u0259b\u0259b o idi ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n cinsini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k b\u0259z\u0259n iyr\u0259nc niyy\u0259t g\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bizim \u0259sas motivimiz m\u0259hz bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n yaz\u0131lmas\u0131 idi \u2013 t\u0259bli\u011fat. Az\u0259rbaycan cinsi selektiv aborta g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u00fcnyada ilk \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckd\u0259dir.\n<\/p>\n
\n Dig\u0259r 2 d\u00f6vl\u0259t is\u0259 s\u00fcrpriz deyil \u2013 birinci yerd\u0259 \u00c7indir, \u00e7\u00fcnki orada uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u201c1 ail\u0259 – 1 u\u015faq\u201d siyas\u0259t apar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan insanlar o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck veribl\u0259r. Dig\u0259r \u00f6lk\u0259 is\u0259 biziml\u0259 eyni mentaliteti b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259n, eyni ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 malik, eyni h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7ir\u0259n… yox, T\u00fcrkiy\u0259 deyil, Erm\u0259nistand\u0131r. O q\u0259d\u0259r ox\u015far\u0131q ki, bu b\u0259dnam siyah\u0131da ikincilik u\u011frunda amans\u0131z m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apar\u0131r\u0131q, bu m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 minl\u0259rl\u0259 do\u011fulmam\u0131\u015f q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 qurban kimi istifad\u0259 olunur.\n<\/p>\n
\n B\u0259s cinsi selektiv abort n\u0259dir? Abort embrionu ana b\u0259tnind\u0259n k\u0259narda ya\u015faya bilm\u0259diyi halda u\u015faql\u0131qdan k\u0259nara \u00e7\u0131xartmaqla hamil\u0259liyin sonland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. Selektiv abort is\u0259 abort edil\u0259n embrionlara m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 se\u00e7ki\u00e7i yana\u015fmaqd\u0131r \u2013 a\u011f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259k, qara qals\u0131n, \u0259lil u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259k, sa\u011flam qals\u0131n v\u0259 s. kimi. Cinsi selektiv abort is\u0259 d\u00f6l\u00fcn cinsin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 abortu h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259kdir. Bu n\u00f6v abortdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259r ad\u0259t\u0259n qad\u0131n cinsin\u0259 m\u0259xsus d\u00f6ll\u0259r olurlar.\n<\/p>\n
\n Patriarxat ki\u015fil\u0259ri n\u0259sil davam\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 hesab etdiyind\u0259n insanlar ki\u015fi cinsin\u0259 m\u0259xsus \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131 arzulay\u0131rlar ki, n\u0259sill\u0259ri davam etsin. Bu arzunu h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259yin \u00fcsulu kimi is\u0259 q\u0131z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259sinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alma\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bundan ba\u015fqa, patriarxat qad\u0131nlar\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r al\u00e7ald\u0131b ki, qad\u0131n olmaq ay\u0131b, h\u0259r an n\u0259slin, ail\u0259nin ad\u0131na vurula bil\u0259c\u0259k ehtimali l\u0259k\u0259 say\u0131l\u0131r, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259 olan insanlar q\u0131zlar\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r az olmas\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.\n<\/p>\n
\n M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 is\u0259 USM v\u0259 abort tibb elminin \u0259lind\u0259 \u00e7ox asan bir \u015feydir. Texnikan\u0131n \u0259xlaqdan s\u00fcr\u0259tli inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131n daha bir faci\u0259vi n\u0259tic\u0259si il\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259yik. \u0130nsanlar q\u0259dim inanclar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn texnologiyadan istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r \u2013 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n cinsini ona g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edirl\u0259r ki, onu abort etsinl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Biz sona q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n cinsini bilm\u0259dik. U\u015faq o\u011flan oldu. Onun penisinin olmas\u0131 bizd\u0259 n\u0259 sevinc, n\u0259 d\u0259 k\u0259d\u0259r yaratd\u0131. Onun yerind\u0259 f\u0259rqli orqan da olsa, eyni m\u00fcnasib\u0259timiz olacaqd\u0131. 9 ay d\u00f6z\u00fcb bunu \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dimiz d\u0259 budur \u2013 h\u0259r birinizi d\u0259v\u0259t edirik ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n cinsini do\u011fulmam\u0131\u015f \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259yin, sonra bunu t\u0259bli\u011f edin, \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r arts\u0131n. Cinsi selektiv abortlar azals\u0131n. U\u015fa\u011fa hans\u0131 r\u0259ng paltar almaq b\u0259han\u0259dir, k\u00f6rp\u0259l\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn f\u0259rqi yoxdur, \u0259ynind\u0259ki paltar \u00e7\u0259hray\u0131d\u0131r, yoxsa g\u00f6y. Bizim o\u011flan\u0131n \u00e7\u0259hray\u0131 paltarlar\u0131 var, yen\u0259 d\u0259 bu r\u0259ngd\u0259 paltarlar almaqda davam edirik. U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 do\u011fulmam\u0131\u015fdan \u201cq\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u201d, \u201cevin ki\u015fisi\u201d kimi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259yin. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u0259xlaql\u0131, m\u0259d\u0259ni insan kimi t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r, o zaman ondan yax\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z da \u00e7\u0131xar, o\u011flan da.\n<\/p>\n
\n M\u0259nim o\u011flum 10 g\u00fcnl\u00fckd\u00fcr, o, \u0259ll\u0259rinin sinxron h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tini t\u0259\u015fkil ed\u0259 bilmir. H\u0259r \u0259li bir c\u00fcr\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edir, sa\u011fa-sola at\u0131r. T\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n \u0259ll\u0259ri bir-birin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 b\u0259rk-b\u0259rk tutur, quca\u011f\u0131nda birl\u0259\u015fdirir. V\u0259ssalam, onun yegan\u0259 u\u011furu budur h\u0259l\u0259 ki \u2013 bir \u0259li il\u0259 dig\u0259rini tutmaq. Bunu niy\u0259 t\u0259svir edir\u0259m? T\u0259qsir, g\u00fcnah anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan milyon km uzaq olan, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u0259rdi-s\u0259ri m\u0259m\u0259ni a\u011fz\u0131na nec\u0259 salmaq, \u0259ll\u0259rini nec\u0259 tutmaq, qaz\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmaq olan varl\u0131qlara ba\u015fa salmaq olmaz ki, \u201cs\u0259n o\u011flansan, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rsan\u201d.\n<\/p>\n
\n H\u0259l\u0259 boynunda q\u0259ls\u0259m\u0259si olan d\u00f6l\u0259 is\u0259 ba\u015fa salmaq olmaz ki, \u201cs\u0259n q\u0131zsan, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt n\u0259f\u0259s ala bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n\u201d. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar q\u0131z v\u0259 o\u011flan, h\u0259yat v\u0259 \u00f6l\u00fcm, n\u0259sil, patriarxat, ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259… n\u0259dir, bilmirl\u0259r. Bunu bil\u0259nl\u0259rl\u0259, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nl\u0259rl\u0259 apar\u0131n o mundar davan\u0131z\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
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