\n \u00c7\u0259tin prosesl\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7irik. \u00d6lk\u0259d\u0259 k\u00fclli miqdarda problem var. Xalq olaraq probleml\u0259r d\u0259ryas\u0131nday\u0131q v\u0259 90 faizimiz \u00fcz\u0259 bilmir. Batmaq \u00fczr\u0259yik. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, h\u0259l\u0259 batmam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. V\u00fccudlar\u0131 vicdan v\u0259 \u0259dal\u0259t duy\u011fular\u0131 il\u0259 dolu \u0259zmkar insanlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi qollar\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fc hesab\u0131na bizi tam bat\u0131ra bilm\u0259yibl\u0259r. Onlar bir \u00e7oxumuz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizliyi t\u0259min ed\u0259n hava balonu rolunu oynay\u0131rlar. \u00dcmid edir\u0259m, uduzan, batan t\u0259r\u0259f biz olmayaca\u011f\u0131q.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu c\u00fcr batma\u011f\u0131m\u0131za s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7oxdur ki… T\u0259nb\u0259llik, laqeydlik, yaltaql\u0131q, qorxaql\u0131q, \u00fcmumi passivlik \u2013 bu \u00fcns\u00fcrl\u0259rin h\u0259r biri \u00f6z-\u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259 bu g\u00fcn biz\u0259 bu sularda \u00fczm\u0259yimiz\u0259 mane olan, a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131q yaradan \u015feyl\u0259rdir.\n<\/p>\n
\n Sadalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00fcns\u00fcrl\u0259rin h\u0259r biri insan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r v\u0259 onun h\u0259yat d\u0259nizind\u0259 batmas\u0131na xidm\u0259t edir. Bu xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z \u015feyl\u0259ri, \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131yan insan is\u0259 \u00e7ox z\u0259if xarakterli v\u0259 ya xaraktersiz biri say\u0131l\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu g\u00fcn is\u0259 m\u0259n, m\u0259hz \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259ki ki\u015fi cinsin\u0259 m\u0259xsus \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin xaraktersizliyind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015facam. M\u0259nfi obraz\u0131 il\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus \u201cf\u0259aliyy\u0259ti\u201d yadda qalan ki\u015fil\u0259rimizd\u0259n bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 yazm\u0131\u015fam. \u018fc\u0259b d\u0259 el\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m! C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259, ail\u0259d\u0259, h\u0259tta idar\u0259etm\u0259 sah\u0259si v\u0259 h\u00f6kum\u0259t dair\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 dominantl\u0131q ed\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rdis\u0259, onlar \u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259 olan resurs bollu\u011fundan do\u011fru-d\u00fcr\u00fcst istifad\u0259 etm\u0259li, ya da geri \u00e7\u0259kilib, yerl\u0259rini \u0259ks cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 verm\u0259lidil\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Onsuz da bu gedi\u015fl\u0259 \u00e7ox g\u00fcman ki el\u0259 d\u0259 olacaq. Qad\u0131nlar s\u00f6z sahibi olacaqlar. D\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir\u0259m! Qoy, olsunlar. Ondan sonra b\u0259lk\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259rik. Yoxsa ki, ad\u0131n\u0131 patriarxal rejim qoyub, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc lap bamb\u0131l\u0131xal kimi aparmaq, sad\u0259c\u0259 biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q son vaxtlar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc lap qabar\u0131q g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u0130\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131nda, ail\u0259d\u0259, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259td\u0259 v\u0259 el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u00e7oxu pis obrazla yadda qal\u0131rlar. Bu q\u0259na\u0259t\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259rim hesab\u0131na g\u0259lm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m. \u018fks\u0259r xan\u0131m tan\u0131\u015flar\u0131m, dostlar\u0131m yanlar\u0131nda olan, m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olduqlar\u0131, i\u015f h\u0259mkarlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 formala\u015fm\u0131\u015f olan m\u0259nfi r\u0259yi m\u0259niml\u0259 v\u0259 dig\u0259rl\u0259ri il\u0259 tez-tez b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259dil\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n D\u00f6vl\u0259t orqan\u0131nda i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n bir xan\u0131m tan\u0131\u015f\u0131m, h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 i\u015f yerind\u0259 bir \u00e7ox ki\u015finin yerli-yersiz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n v\u0259zif\u0259c\u0259 yuxar\u0131 olanlara yaltaqlanmas\u0131ndan el\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259k a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r ki, m\u0259nim d\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yim a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131r. \u018flav\u0259 edir ki, i\u015fd\u0259 \u0259n f\u0259al s\u00f6zg\u0259zdir\u0259nl\u0259r v\u0259 \u201ctorbatik\u0259nl\u0259r\u201d d\u0259 m\u0259hz ki\u015fi cinsin\u0259 m\u0259xsus adamlard\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bir d\u0259f\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131na ba\u015fqa ki\u015fi il\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n bir qad\u0131ndan bunu n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn etdiyini soru\u015fmu\u015fdum. Cavab\u0131nda m\u0259n\u0259 qay\u0131tm\u0131\u015fd\u0131 ki, \u201c\u0259rim \u00e7ox \u015fit-\u015fit zarafatlar edir, q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259k qabiliyy\u0259tind\u0259n uzaq olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u0259min biri deyil!\u201d T\u0259bii ki, qad\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 he\u00e7 bir halda haqq qazand\u0131rmaq olmaz, f\u0259q\u0259t bax, bu c\u00fcr motivli x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259r bu g\u00fcn \u00e7oxluq t\u0259\u015fkil edir.\n<\/p>\n
\n H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tdir. \u00dcmumilikd\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar yanlar\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u0259min, q\u00fcrurlu, q\u0259rarl\u0131, f\u0259al ki\u015fil\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Onlar\u0131 \u0259dal\u0259tsiz, qorxaq, yaltaq v\u0259 passiv ki\u015fil\u0259r c\u0259lb etmir. Bu c\u00fcr xaraktersiz ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 ancaq bir halda yax\u0131n \u0259laq\u0259 ba\u011flar\u0131 yarada bil\u0259rl\u0259r – \u0259g\u0259r o ki\u015fi pulludursa. Onlarla olduqlar\u0131 t\u0259qdird\u0259 d\u0259, h\u0259min qad\u0131nlar, \u00e7ox vaxt \u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 imkan d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fckc\u0259, o ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t d\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Bu hal art\u0131q c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 tez-tez rast g\u0259lin\u0259n t\u0259bii bir hadis\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Ki\u015fi xaraktersizdirs\u0259, qad\u0131n, onun o hal\u0131ndan ikrah hissi ke\u00e7irir.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu g\u00fcn Az\u0259rbaycandak\u0131 ail\u0259 institutunun pis v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sinin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rimizin xaraktersizliyidir. Bel\u0259 hallar \u00e7oxald\u0131qca, t\u0259bii \u015f\u0259kild\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z getdikc\u0259 f\u0259alla\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u0259sas apar\u0131c\u0131 q\u00fcvv\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evirilirl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n f\u0259all\u0131\u011f\u0131 superdir. Bayaq da qeyd etdim, s\u0259mimi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir\u0259m, amma \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcy\u00fcm t\u0259r\u0259f is\u0259 burda getdikc\u0259 pozulan gender balans\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu gedi\u015fl\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259nfi reputasiya h\u0259m ail\u0259 institutunun daha da pisl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xaracaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 cinsl\u0259raras\u0131 q\u00fctbl\u0259\u015fm\u0259 d\u0259rinl\u0259\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. Bu da intriqalar\u0131n miqyas\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 dem\u0259kdir.\n<\/p>\n
\n N\u0259 etm\u0259li? Ki\u015fil\u0259r papaqlar\u0131n\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131na qoyub yax\u015f\u0131-yax\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259li, t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr etm\u0259li v\u0259 passiv v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131d\u0131lar.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u00c7ox oxumal\u0131, \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li, maraqlanmal\u0131, \u00f6zl\u0259rini inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259li v\u0259 xarakterl\u0259rini m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q v\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131lar! Vallah, m\u00fcsb\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fiklik m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n da sevib, h\u00f6rm\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259diyi v\u0259 can atd\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015fiy\u0259 nec\u0259 \u00e7evirilm\u0259li? Bax, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259n, indi konkret n\u0259l\u0259rs\u0259 yazmayacam. \u0130nternetd\u0259 xeyli maraql\u0131 \u0259d\u0259biyyat v\u0259 informasiyalar var.\n<\/p>\n
\n D\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, z\u0259hm\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k, axtar, tap, \u00f6yr\u0259n v\u0259 t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259! U\u011furlar, \u0259ziz ki\u015fil\u0259r!\n<\/p>\n
\n P.S. Yaz\u0131m \u00fcmumil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259 xarakterli deyil. M\u0259n m\u0259hz \u0259ks\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutmu\u015fam. Qaraq\u0259lbliliy\u0259 yol verm\u0259!\n<\/p>\n
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