\n \u00d6lk\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u0259mini da\u011f\u0131dan \u201cm\u0259mur arvad\u0131n\u0131n intihar\u0131\u201d bar\u0259d\u0259 isti-isti yaza bilm\u0259dim. Arif Allahverdiyev adl\u0131 h\u0259min m\u0259murun ad\u0131n\u0131, \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rini d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 halland\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olsam bel\u0259, m\u0259hz hadis\u0259 \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259 \u00e7a\u015fq\u0131n, yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcratla yazma\u011f\u0131n qeyri-etik oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Saytlarda davaml\u0131 yerl\u0259\u015fdiril\u0259n \u201cQ\u0259b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259mur arvad\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc asd\u0131\u201d x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri \u00fcr\u0259yimi a\u011fr\u0131td\u0131. Azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faq anas\u0131 g\u0259nc qad\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131 taleyin\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fcm. Amma ha el\u0259dim, onun m\u0259hz azya\u015fl\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ba\u015f ed\u0259 bilm\u0259diyi ortamda qoyub getm\u0259sin\u0259 haqq qazand\u0131ra bilm\u0259dim. \u00c7\u00fcnki az qala \u0259lli ya\u015f\u0131mda itirdiyim anamdan sonra \u00fcst\u00fcm\u0259 \u00e7\u00f6km\u00fc\u015f yetimlikd\u0259n m\u0259n ya\u015fda adam h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259zilir\u0259m. Ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131z x\u0259yal ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yi t\u0259minata malik o u\u015faq is\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fc boyu h\u0259r \u015feyi ola-ola \u0259slind\u0259 d\u0259rin bir bo\u015flu\u011fun i\u015find\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259z, da\u015f\u0131nmaz bir \u0259skikl\u0259 \u201cb\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259c\u0259k\u201d.\n<\/p>\n
\n Arif Allahverdiyev yuxar\u0131lar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 girm\u0259kd\u0259 daha cevik, daha diriba\u015f v\u0259 bu m\u0259qs\u0259d u\u011frunda hara v\u0259 n\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r des\u0259n ged\u0259c\u0259k biri idi v\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, \u0259sas\u0259n bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri onu Q\u0259b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n yum\u015faq des\u0259k, k\u00fcll\u00fc-ixtiyar sahibin\u0259 \u00e7evirdi. Zaman-zaman \u201cicra Arif\u201d i\u015far\u0259tinin s\u0259rt v\u0259 geni\u015f t\u0259sir dair\u0259sind\u0259n yazsam da, m\u0259lum hadis\u0259d\u0259n sonra bu m\u00f6vzunun art\u0131q m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qapand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duydum. S\u0259b\u0259b n\u0259 olur-olsun, o yerd\u0259 ki, analar\u0131n boynuna k\u00f6rp\u0259 qollar \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 k\u0259ndir dolan\u0131r, o yerd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa adam\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc qalm\u0131r. H\u0259tta n\u0259f\u0259si d\u0259 t\u00fck\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n
\n H\u0259r\u00e7\u0259nd bir h\u0259qiq\u0259t d\u0259 var ki, s\u00f6hb\u0259t h\u0259r x\u0131rda f\u00fcrs\u0259td\u0259 \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yimizl\u0259, \u00fcr\u0259yimizl\u0259, heysiyy\u0259timizl\u0259 oynayan m\u0259mur sinfind\u0259n gedir. Bu sinifd\u0259 istisna olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn arifl\u0259rin n\u0259inki \u015fanslar\u0131, he\u00e7 arzular\u0131, niyy\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259 yoxdur. \u018fksin\u0259, qulluq etdikl\u0259ri rejimin \u201c\u0259la\u00e7\u0131s\u0131\u201d olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ar\u0259siz k\u00fctl\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259n xalq\u0131 daha canf\u0259\u015fanl\u0131qla daha \u00e7ox s\u0131xma\u011fa, bo\u011fma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaqlar. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 duy\u011fusuz v\u0259 ac\u0131mas\u0131z m\u0259mur sinfind\u0259n m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t umma\u011fa d\u0259ym\u0259z. B\u0259s ill\u0259rl\u0259 haqs\u0131z-hesabs\u0131z o sinfin arxa s\u0131ralar\u0131na m\u0259hkum edilmi\u015f xalq k\u00fctl\u0259sin\u0259 \u00fcmid etm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rmi? Pafos olsa da, \u00fcmid d\u0259 var, ya\u015fam s\u0259b\u0259bi niy\u0259 olmas\u0131n?\n<\/p>\n
\n \u00d6lk\u0259ni b\u00fcr\u00fcy\u0259n intihar epidemiyas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri v\u0259 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 saytlarda \u00f6t\u0259ri man\u015fet, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u0259lik m\u00fczakir\u0259 olmaqdan savay\u0131 r\u0259smi \u00fcnvanlarda ciddiy\u0259 al\u0131nmad\u0131. D\u00f6vl\u0259t strukturlar\u0131 bir yana, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n m\u0259nas\u0131z s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rini aparan \u201cyetim\u201d deputatlar bel\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzunu dill\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac g\u00f6rm\u0259dil\u0259r. \u0130ntiharlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z sosial s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n t\u00f6r\u0259ndiyin\u0259 v\u0259 bu \u00fczd\u0259n d\u0259 b\u0259lan\u0131n \u00f6z \u0259hat\u0259 dair\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n yan ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 \u0259min olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnm\u00fc? Amma bildiyimiz kimi \u00f6t\u0259n h\u0259ft\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir m\u0259mur arvad\u0131 adamlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z maddi s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131lara g\u00f6r\u0259 deyil, ba\u015fqa s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n d\u0259 bezib canlar\u0131na q\u0131ya bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rini s\u00fcbut ed\u0259r\u0259k varl\u0131-hall\u0131 allahverdiyevl\u0259r ail\u0259sini d\u0259 intihar siyah\u0131s\u0131na qatd\u0131. Ona q\u0259d\u0259r v\u0259 ondan sonra da bu siyah\u0131da d\u0259yi\u015fiklik ed\u0259nl\u0259r olub, yen\u0259 ola bil\u0259r d\u0259.\n<\/p>\n
\n Amma bu c\u00fcr gedi\u015fl\u0259 b\u00fct\u00f6v yax\u0131n-uzaq \u0259traf\u0131 yand\u0131ran o nakam xan\u0131m g\u0259lin ba\u015fqa bir insan imi\u015f…\n<\/p>\n
\n Kims\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259d\u0259n s\u0131\u011fortalanmay\u0131bsa, birc\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 ortaq n\u00f6qt\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lib b\u00fct\u00fcn n\u00f6v intiharlara \u201cyox\u201d dem\u0259yin vaxt\u0131 \u00e7atmay\u0131bm\u0131? He\u00e7 deyils\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259ni g\u0259z\u0259n \u201ck\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc\u201d \u00f6l\u00fcm kabusuna qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xmaqla vicdan\u0131m\u0131z bir az rahatlayard\u0131. Kim bilir, b\u0259lk\u0259 bu yolla kimins\u0259 \u0259lind\u0259n \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 xilas etm\u0259k d\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olard\u0131.\n<\/p>\n
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\n H\u0259r hans\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 h\u0259yatdan getm\u0259k inad\u0131m\u0131z bizi t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z sev\u0259n birc\u0259 n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 bel\u0259 bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ac\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kdir\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, he\u00e7 olmasa o n\u0259f\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dir\u0259n\u0259k. Yoxsa q\u0259rar\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn deyil, onun \u00f6l\u00fcm h\u00f6km\u00fcn\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k. Biz qatil deyilik ax\u0131. H\u0259m d\u0259 sevdikl\u0259rimizin v\u0259 sev\u0259nl\u0259rimizin qatili…\n<\/p>\n
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