\n Mart da g\u0259ldi. He\u00e7 olmaya indi b\u0259d\u0259n fiquran\u0131za baxma\u011fa, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0259ki-d\u00fcz\u0259n verm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z, yoxsa Novruz bayram\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259amlar\u0131 i\u00e7ind\u0259 n\u0259f\u0259s almadan, bir ay da yeyib, \u015fi\u015f\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bu haqda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259ksiniz?\n<\/p>\n
\n Kiml\u0259rs\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, minl\u0259rl\u0259 problemin \u0259hat\u0259sind\u0259 bo\u011fuluruq, adam\u0131n toxundu\u011fu m\u00f6vzuya bax. \u0130nand\u0131r\u0131m sizi ki, bu da problemli m\u00f6vzudur, h\u0259m d\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 sonlan\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, d\u00fczg\u00fcn qidalanmamaq, idmandan, fiziki m\u0259\u015fql\u0259rd\u0259n uzaq olmaq onkoloji x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Sonra g\u0259l \u0259m\u0259liyyata, iyn\u0259-d\u0259rmana genin\u0259-boluna pul x\u0259rcl\u0259. \u0130\u015fin h\u0259l\u0259 m\u0259nfi psixoloji t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri d\u0259 var.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u00d6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bir-birin\u0259 ziddiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 paradoksal bir hal ya\u015fan\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n qurulu\u015funa fikir verm\u0259k, daha g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq estetik m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259td\u0259n ba\u015fqa h\u0259m d\u0259 f\u0259rdin intim hissl\u0259rinin ay\u0131q v\u0259 normal olmas\u0131ndan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Bu hal \u0259trafdak\u0131lara v\u0259 sevdiyin \u015f\u0259xs \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha c\u0259zbedici enerji yaratma\u011fa xidm\u0259t edir v\u0259 \u00e7ox t\u0259bii hesab olunur.\n<\/p>\n
\n Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259ddi-bulu\u011fa \u00e7atanda saatlarla g\u00fczg\u00fc qaba\u011f\u0131nda dayan\u0131b, daha g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259k c\u0259hdl\u0259ri intim oyan\u0131\u015fdan qaynaqlan\u0131r. Bayaq vur\u011fulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin qeyri-t\u0259bii v\u0259 ziddiyy\u0259tli m\u0259qam\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 g\u0259nc qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259ri yarad\u0131r. S\u00f6hb\u0259t b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00e7oxluqdan gedir. Onlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu n\u0259 fiquralar\u0131na, n\u0259 \u00fcmumi estetik t\u0259mizlikl\u0259rin\u0259 yet\u0259rinc\u0259 baxm\u0131rlar. Buna r\u0259\u011fm\u0259n yen\u0259 arzuolunan olaraq qal\u0131rlar. Onlar\u0131n arxay\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin qapal\u0131 olmas\u0131ndan qaynaqlan\u0131r. Bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259rait \u0259trafda \u201cyan\u0131q\u201d ki\u015fil\u0259r yeti\u015fdirir. Yaranan m\u00fcnbit \u015f\u0259rait qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259nb\u0259l v\u0259 bax\u0131ms\u0131z olmalar\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. H\u0259min qad\u0131nlar \u0259mindil\u0259r ki, ist\u0259nl\u0259n ki\u015fiy\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b, ona tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q t\u0259klif ets\u0259l\u0259r, r\u0259dd cavab\u0131 almayacaqlar. \u018fslind\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015flikd\u0259n bu g\u00fcn\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcbl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n M\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u0259tirsiz, bax\u0131ms\u0131z, yek\u0259qar\u0131n tipd\u0259 olmas\u0131n\u0131 da \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131yam. S\u00f6hb\u0259t h\u0259m d\u0259 gigiyenik t\u0259mizlikl\u0259rd\u0259n gedir. H\u0259r \u015fey qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Amma bu yaz\u0131m \u0259sas olaraq qad\u0131nlar\u0131n v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini \u0259hat\u0259 edir.\n<\/p>\n
\n Qad\u0131n da, ki\u015fi d\u0259 bir-biri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yaran\u0131b, onlar\u0131n bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 meyl etm\u0259si, \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yi olduqca normald\u0131r. Sivil c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar da ki\u015fil\u0259r kimi qar\u015f\u0131 cinsin diqq\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 b\u0259y\u0259ndiyi ki\u015finin \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 yol tapma\u011fa, onu \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fana q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif z\u0259hm\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7irl\u0259r. Bu ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 aiddir. \u018fg\u0259r adamlar bir-birl\u0259rind\u0259n m\u00fcsb\u0259t elektrik ala bilirl\u0259rs\u0259, naz v\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u0259\u00e7ilik hallar\u0131 ya\u015fanm\u0131r. H\u0259yat v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t s\u00fcni \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259bl\u0259\u015fdirilmir. \u0130nsanlar d\u0259rk edir ki, onsuz da h\u0259yat \u00e7\u0259tindir v\u0259 onu bir az da \u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131larla \u00e7\u0259tin el\u0259mirl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u00f6nc\u0259 \u201cYoutube\u201dd\u0259 post-Sovet \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n birind\u0259 lent\u0259 al\u0131nan sosial video-eksperiment izl\u0259dim. Ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri gizli kamera lent\u0259 al\u0131rd\u0131. Dem\u0259li, g\u0259nc g\u00f6z\u0259l bir q\u0131z \u015f\u0259h\u0259rin m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif o\u011flanlara yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 onlardan xo\u015fu g\u0259ldiyini bildirir, tan\u0131\u015f olmaq ist\u0259yini s\u00f6yl\u0259yir. Ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u00e7oxu cazib\u0259dar q\u0131z\u0131n t\u0259klifini m\u00fcsb\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131lasa da, bir xeyli g\u0259nc o\u011flan, q\u0131za m\u0259d\u0259ni \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 r\u0259dd cavab\u0131 verirl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u0130ndi h\u0259min eksperimentin Bak\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 ba\u015f tutdu\u011funu t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin. \u018fmin\u0259m ki, 99 faiz ki\u015fi h\u0259min q\u0131z\u0131n cazib\u0259si qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda dayana bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. Qad\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si \u015e\u0259rq ki\u015fisinin \u0259n z\u0259if yerl\u0259rind\u0259n biri, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 birincisidir. Az\u0259rbaycan da h\u0259min \u015e\u0259rq \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rini \u201clayiqinc\u0259\u201d t\u0259msil etm\u0259kd\u0259dir.\n<\/p>\n
\n D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u015fahidi oldu\u011fum bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti t\u0259svir edim. Bir qrup h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131mla bir m\u0259kanda olanda yan\u0131m\u0131zdan ke\u00e7\u0259n xan\u0131mlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131na acg\u00f6zl\u00fckl\u0259 baxan, a\u011f\u0131zsuyu ax\u0131dan ki\u015fil\u0259r tap\u0131l\u0131r. V\u0259 h\u0259min tip ki\u015fil\u0259r, ist\u0259nil\u0259n qad\u0131na meyl sal\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r toppu\u015f da olsa, \u00e7\u0131lpaq ayaqlar\u0131 normal \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 epilyasiya edilm\u0259s\u0259 bel\u0259, ona qar\u015f\u0131 intim hissl\u0259r qabar\u0131q olur.\n<\/p>\n
\n Ki\u015fil\u0259rin z\u0259ifliyini a\u00e7\u0131q etiraf edir\u0259m. Amma bu hal\u0131n impulsla\u015fmas\u0131na qad\u0131nlar da b\u00f6y\u00fck r\u0259vac verir. Qad\u0131nlar a\u015fkar \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259bi\u0259tin \u0259leyhin\u0259 gedirl\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259rin g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259yi q\u00fcrurlar\u0131na s\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131rlar. \u201cM\u0259ni b\u0259y\u0259n\u0259n nec\u0259y\u0259ms\u0259, o c\u00fcr d\u0259 b\u0259y\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k\u201d f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259si il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. \u018fslind\u0259 bu yax\u015f\u0131 prinsipdir, amma s\u00f6hb\u0259t estetik islahatlardan gedir.\n<\/p>\n
\n \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n epilyasiyaya, b\u0259d\u0259n qurulu\u015funa, g\u00fcnd\u0259lik t\u0259mizlik predmetl\u0259rin\u0259 riay\u0259t etmirs\u0259ns\u0259 v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin s\u0259ni bel\u0259 q\u0259bul etm\u0259sini ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, incim\u0259, dem\u0259li, s\u0259n, pinti qad\u0131n say\u0131l\u0131rsan! \u0130st\u0259k v\u0259 h\u0259yat f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259n ziddiyy\u0259tli bir hal yarad\u0131r v\u0259 s\u0259n d\u0259 eyb\u0259c\u0259r \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131rsan.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00f6nc\u0259 Bak\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rini ukraynal\u0131 bir jurnalist ziyar\u0259t etmi\u015fdi. O, bura Moskva v\u0259 Kiyev \u015f\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259 apard\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmadan sonra g\u0259lib \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Bak\u0131da apard\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259rini v\u0259t\u0259nin\u0259 qay\u0131dandan sonra \u00f6z i\u015fl\u0259diyi x\u0259b\u0259r portal\u0131nda yazm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Jurnalist, m\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259 bildirirdi ki, Moskva v\u0259 Kiyevd\u0259ki ki\u015fil\u0259rin 70 faiz\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259ri bax\u0131ml\u0131 deyill\u0259r. Ora estetik g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259ri \u0259lav\u0259 etmi\u015f jurnalist yaz\u0131r ki, Moskva v\u0259 Kiyev ki\u015fil\u0259rinin \u00e7oxu n\u0259 t\u0259mizlikl\u0259rin\u0259, n\u0259 geyiml\u0259rin\u0259, n\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n qurulu\u015flar\u0131na fikir verirl\u0259r. H\u0259min \u015f\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259 ya\u015fayan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu is\u0259 \u00e7ox bax\u0131ml\u0131, yax\u015f\u0131 b\u0259d\u0259n qurulu\u015funa sahibdil\u0259r. M\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259ki Az\u0259rbaycan haqq\u0131ndak\u0131 qeydl\u0259r is\u0259 tamamil\u0259 \u0259ksin\u0259dir. Bizim ki\u015fil\u0259rin, qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131zdan daha bax\u0131ml\u0131 oldu\u011funu qeyd ed\u0259n jurnalist \u0259lav\u0259 edir ki, burda oldu\u011fu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 Bak\u0131dak\u0131 q\u0131zlar aras\u0131nda az sayda g\u00f6z\u0259l b\u0259d\u0259n qurulu\u015funa m\u0259xsus v\u0259 z\u00f6vql\u0259 geyin\u0259n xan\u0131mla rastla\u015f\u0131b.\n<\/p>\n
\n Bu yaz\u0131 qad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda isterika v\u0259 aqressiya yaratmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fiklik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn stimul yaratsa, daha faydal\u0131 olar. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin ucu il\u0259 baxanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir hikm\u0259t var\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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