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\n Atamla ilk m\u00fcbahis\u0259m 3 ya\u015f\u0131mda olmu\u015fdu. \u0130ndi d\u0259 yad\u0131ma g\u0259lir. Yay idi. U\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n ke\u00e7diyi o h\u00fcnd\u00fcr k\u00fcrs\u00fcl\u00fc k\u0259nd evinin boyas\u0131 t\u00f6k\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f geni\u015f qonaq ota\u011f\u0131nda oturmu\u015fdum. Qonaqlar\u0131m\u0131z da var idi. Onlar h\u0259min adamlardan idil\u0259r ki, atalar\u0131m\u0131z onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda bizi kiml\u0259r\u0259s\u0259 s\u00f6yd\u00fcr\u00fcr, sonra da ham\u0131s\u0131 bir yerd\u0259 q\u0259\u015f\u015f edib, g\u00fcl\u00fcrl\u0259r. N\u00f6vb\u0259 il\u0259 ham\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6y\u00fcr\u00fck, n\u00f6vb\u0259 il\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn meymunluqlar\u0131 edirik. Onlar da balaca ki\u015fiy\u0259 l\u0259zz\u0259tl\u0259 tama\u015fa edirl\u0259r, sonra da \u00e7\u00f6ld\u0259-bay\u0131rda “Filank\u0259sin o\u011flu, allah saxlam\u0131\u015f, \u00e7ox\u00a0 diriba\u015f u\u015faqd\u0131r” deyirl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n

\n H\u0259min vaxt\u0131 otaqda n\u0259 etdiyim yad\u0131mda deyil. Atam q\u0259fl\u0259t\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259 “anan t\u0259r\u0259fi \u00e7ox ist\u0259yirs\u0259n, ya m\u0259nimkil\u0259ri?” klassik sual\u0131n\u0131 verdi. G\u00f6zl\u0259ri par\u0131lday\u0131rd\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259min \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 kresloya yayxan\u0131b, cavab\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259, daha do\u011frusu, g\u00f6zl\u0259diyi cavab\u0131 e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fd\u0131. Amma cavab \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ox g\u00f6zl\u0259tm\u0259di, o is\u0259 bu cavab\u0131 he\u00e7 c\u00fcr g\u00f6zl\u0259mirdi. \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 qonaqlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 \u00fcrk\u0259k n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259 baxd\u0131m, dey\u0259c\u0259yim cavabdan sonra onlardan k\u00f6m\u0259k g\u00f6zl\u0259yirdim. Sonra sakitc\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sal\u0131b “anam t\u0259r\u0259fi” dey\u0259 m\u0131z\u0131ldand\u0131m.\n<\/p>\n

\n Atam bundan xeyli naraz\u0131 qald\u0131. El\u0259 bil, qurba\u011fa g\u00f6n\u00fcn\u0259 da\u015f atd\u0131lar. Amma i\u015f bel\u0259 qurtara bilm\u0259zdi. Ki\u015filik q\u00fcrurunu 3 ya\u015fl\u0131 o\u011flu be\u015f q\u0259piklik etmi\u015fdi. Paltar\u0131m\u0131n k\u00fcr\u0259k hiss\u0259sind\u0259n yap\u0131\u015f\u0131b a\u00e7\u0131q p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sallad\u0131, sual\u0131 t\u0259krar etdi. Qorxumdan “s\u0259ninkil\u0259ri” dedim. V\u0259 atamla aramdak\u0131 ilk \u00e7at m\u0259hz o an yarand\u0131. M\u0259ni, 3 ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n sallay\u0131b atmaqla t\u0259hdid ed\u0259n biri g\u00fcn\u00fcn birind\u0259 bunu ed\u0259 bil\u0259rdi.\n<\/p>\n

\n Sonra 4 ya\u015f\u0131m olanda atam h\u0259bs olundu. Onun qolundak\u0131 qandallar v\u0259 iki qolundan yap\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f polisl\u0259r m\u0259nim “m\u0259\u011flubedilm\u0259z ata” obraz\u0131m\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n x\u0259tt \u00e7\u0259kdi. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, buna \u015f\u00fckr etm\u0259liy\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259n atam\u0131 bu olanlardan sonra he\u00e7 vaxt ideal saymam\u0131\u015fam, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc ona b\u0259nz\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015fam. 7 illik atas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n f\u0259sadlar\u0131 a\u011f\u0131r oldu, ancaq atas\u0131z qalmaq m\u0259n\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm olma\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k etdi. H\u0259yatda \u0259vv\u0259lkini t\u0259krarlayan bir f\u0259rd yox, s\u0259hvl\u0259riyl\u0259, do\u011frular\u0131yla \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etmi\u015f bir insan yeti\u015fdi.\n<\/p>\n

\n Atam art\u0131q h\u0259bsd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xanda \u00fcst\u00fcmd\u0259ki t\u0259siri ancaq ata oldu\u011funa g\u00f6r\u0259 idi. T\u0259bii ki, h\u0259r bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 valideyn kimi m\u0259nim atam da bir ay qaba\u011fa q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131n h\u0259r n\u00f6qt\u0259sin\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. O, m\u0259n\u0259 azadl\u0131q verirdi, ancaq bu azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 o verirdi v\u0259 h\u0259r dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda hiss etdirirdi. “T\u0259bii ki, m\u0259nim xo\u015fuma g\u0259lir s\u0259ninl\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k. S\u0259n\u0259 bu c\u00fcr azadl\u0131q verm\u0259yim \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ancaq he\u00e7 vaxt m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00e7ox \u015fey bil\u0259 bilm\u0259zs\u0259n. M\u0259n h\u0259bsxanada 3 min n\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259 bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fam…” V\u0259 ard\u0131nca ordak\u0131 h\u0259yatdan, t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. \u0130sbat ed\u0259 bilm\u0259dikc\u0259, co\u015furdu.\n<\/p>\n

\n M\u0259n is\u0259 niy\u0259s\u0259 onu h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 hirsl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fam. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259nim valideynim Turgenevin “Atalar v\u0259 o\u011fullar”\u0131ndak\u0131 atalar deyil, Maksim Qorkinin “Ana”s\u0131ndak\u0131 o\u011fluna dayaq olan q\u0259hr\u0259man valideyn deyil. M\u0259nim atam ma\u015f\u0131n\u0131n rulunun ortas\u0131na c\u0259nab\u0131n \u015f\u0259klini yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131ran, c\u0259nab\u0131 \u201cb\u00f6y\u00fck qarda\u015f\u0131\u201d adland\u0131ran adamd\u0131r. \u0130lk vaxtlar odlu-alovlu dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m olub, onu h\u0259r v\u0259chl\u0259 inand\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7alm\u0131\u015fam. Statistikalar, m\u00fcqayis\u0259l\u0259r, paradokslar, s\u00fcbutlar g\u00f6yd\u0259 u\u00e7u\u015fub. Ancaq \u00e7ifayda. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 eyni s\u00f6zl\u0259ri e\u015fitmi\u015f\u0259m: “9 milyon oldu a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131z, bizimki a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131”. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 qorxub. Ki, m\u0259n\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259kil\u0259ri des\u0259, yolumu “aza bil\u0259r\u0259m”, idar\u0259 olunmaz hala g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m. M\u0259n\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 qorxub. Bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Sonra onun ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259diyini g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.\n<\/p>\n

\n Q\u0131rx\u0131n\u0131 ke\u00e7\u0259n az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ataya \u00e7\u0259tin ki, n\u0259yis\u0259 ba\u015fa salmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olsun. M\u0259nim atam intelligent deyil. He\u00e7 2 universitet bitirs\u0259 d\u0259, intelligent olmazd\u0131. Zat\u0259n SSR\u0130 vaxt\u0131 universitetl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259hsil sosializm, kommunizm, sovxoz-kolxozdan ba\u015fqa bir \u015fey deyildi. Bu, ayr\u0131 bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259. M\u0259nim atam gerontokratik c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u0259n bariz f\u0259rdidir. A\u011fl\u0131 ya\u015fla \u00f6l\u00e7\u0259n. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar b\u0259dii \u0259d\u0259biyyatdan, t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259rd\u0259n, h\u0259yat\u0131n qanyarl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan uzaq qal\u0131blar. Onlar h\u0259yat\u0131 qocald\u0131qca \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131blar v\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259t vaxt\u0131 s\u0259hv n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131blar. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n, \u00f6z b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rinin ist\u0259diyi n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131blar. Onlar h\u0259yat\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n \u00f6yr\u0259nibl\u0259r. V\u0259 indi onlar biz\u0259 bunu t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n

\n Bloq yaz\u0131s\u0131 yazma\u011f\u0131m\u0131 uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t atam bilm\u0259di. Bilirdi ki, bir vaxtlar – n\u0259 vaxtsa “92-93-d\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u00e7\u00f6l\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xa bilm\u0259m\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bi olan m\u00fcxalif\u0259t\u0259” qo\u015fulmu\u015fam. Amma bilmirdi ki, m\u0259n bu q\u0259d\u0259r ir\u0259li getmi\u015f\u0259m, onun t\u0259birinc\u0259 des\u0259m “qudurmu\u015fam”. Yoxsa m\u0259ni \u00f6vladl\u0131qdan sil\u0259rdi. Bu ifad\u0259 d\u0259 ona m\u0259xsusdur.
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\n Ata k\u00f6hn\u0259liy\u0259 meyl ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu onun \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131ndan g\u0259lir. Ancaq bir d\u0259 qarda\u015f vaxt\u0131ndan tez qocalma\u011fa q\u0259rar verirs\u0259… Onda adam tikanl\u0131 m\u0259ftill\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259 olunmu\u015f kimi olur. Qarda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n savad v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcc\u0259sin\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m.\n<\/p>\n

\n He\u00e7 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 da etm\u0259yb. Ancaq o, k\u00f6hn\u0259 m\u00fcxalif\u0259t\u00e7il\u0259rd\u0259n b\u0259zil\u0259rinin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o m\u0259nhus taleyi ya\u015fad\u0131. Maddiyat v\u0259 rahatl\u0131q m\u00fcbariz\u0259 e\u015fqin\u0259 g\u00fcc g\u0259ldi, “a\u011f\u0131lland\u0131”. 250 manat maa\u015fa azadl\u0131q e\u015fqini qurban verdi. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, bu e\u015fq onda bir h\u0259v\u0259s kimi yaranm\u0131\u015fd\u0131, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir he\u00e7 oldu\u011funu ata-babalar\u0131 kimi ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda d\u0259rk etdi v\u0259 qat\u0131 m\u00fcxalif olan bu beyinli insan beynini bir k\u0259nara tullad\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259murluq i\u015finin ilk pill\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m basd\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu i\u015fd\u0259 ona beyin v\u0259 vicdandan daha \u00e7ox susmaq v\u0259 ita\u0259t etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n

\n Ancaq k\u00f6hn\u0259 ad\u0259td\u0259nmi, ya dar\u0131xmaqdanm\u0131, o h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcxalif saytlar\u0131 oxuyur. Ancaq payla\u015fm\u0131r. O, indi m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sl m\u00fc\u0259mmad\u0131r, 5-ci kolon kimi bir \u015feydir. Qarda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n ax\u0131r vaxtlar \u0259n \u00e7ox i\u015fl\u0259tdiyi ifad\u0259 “bu yoldan d\u00f6nm\u0259s\u0259n, s\u0259ni qarda\u015fl\u0131qdan sil\u0259c\u0259m”dir. Anam da onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rini t\u0259sdiq edirdi. “Sil, o\u011flum, sil. Bu u\u015faq ham\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 zibil\u0259 salacaq. Anas\u0131na da yaz\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u0259lmir. M\u0259n bu q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kdim, u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcm, indi m\u0259ni fikirl\u0259\u015fmir.” v\u0259 s v\u0259 i.\n<\/p>\n

\n Bu yax\u0131nlarda saytlardan birin\u0259 bir yaz\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. H\u0259min ba\u015f\u0131b\u0259lal\u0131 yaz\u0131n\u0131 qarda\u015f\u0131m oxuyubmu\u015f. O hadis\u0259d\u0259n sonra m\u0259nd\u0259 bel\u0259 bir fikir yaran\u0131b ki, qarda\u015f\u0131m sat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f m\u00fcxalif\u0259t\u00e7i rolunu oynay\u0131r. O, h\u0259r \u015feyi oxuyur, amma ki, x\u0259b\u0259r tutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, r\u0259qibi daha yax\u015f\u0131 anlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r tutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn.\n<\/p>\n

\n H\u0259min g\u00fcn dostlar\u0131mla oturub piv\u0259l\u0259yirdik. Getm\u0259yim\u0259 bir g\u00fcn qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Sabah m\u0259n ham\u0131dan \u00e7ox uzaqda bir yerd\u0259 olacaqd\u0131m. Qarda\u015f\u0131m z\u0259ng etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. G\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259dim. \u00c7\u00fcnki xeyr\u0259 \u0259lam\u0259t olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilirdim. Evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xanda atam yen\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259sih\u0259t vermi\u015fdi. Yen\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00f6zl\u0259riyl\u0259 d\u0259 olsa, tabe olmayan \u00f6vlad g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. \u0130\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, pulu ev\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259k, evd\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131z se\u00e7m\u0259l\u0259ri, g\u00f6nd\u0259rdiyim pullarla se\u00e7il\u0259c\u0259k q\u0131za cehiz almaq, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sal\u0131b bir tik\u0259 \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yini qazanmaq…\n<\/p>\n

\n Bak\u0131ya getm\u0259k ist\u0259diyimi, onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda rahat ola bilm\u0259diyimi dedim. Yenid\u0259n eyni m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r, ac\u0131qlanmalar, hidd\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259 v\u0259 q\u0259mginl\u0259\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r. Bu el\u0259 bir \u015feydir ki, bir d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259\u011flub oldunsa, ac\u0131d\u0131nsa, geri \u00e7\u0259kildins\u0259, s\u0259nin m\u0259\u011flubiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin say\u0131-hesab\u0131 olmayacaq. Onlar s\u0259nin z\u0259if yerini bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. A\u011fz\u0131 qana batan canavar kimi, h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 eyni yerd\u0259n qan\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7m\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Dey\u0259s\u0259n, uzaqlara getm\u0259yim\u0259 az qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131 dey\u0259 c\u0259sar\u0259tli oldum, \u00e7oxdand\u0131r etm\u0259diyim inadkarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 etdim. H\u0259m d\u0259 meydan oxuyurmu\u015fcas\u0131na. Y\u0259ni ki, m\u0259n Bak\u0131ya getm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sizd\u0259n icaz\u0259 ist\u0259mir\u0259m. Sad\u0259c\u0259, x\u0259b\u0259rdar edir\u0259m. Na\u0259lac raz\u0131la\u015fd\u0131lar.\n<\/p>\n

\n Amma dedi ki, s\u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin t\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunan u\u015faqsan. S\u0259n\u0259 borcum oldu\u011funa g\u00f6r\u0259 bax\u0131ram. Dedi v\u0259 bir daha yaralad\u0131. Sistem b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 ona g\u00f6r\u0259 vacibdir ki, h\u0259r k\u0259sin biz\u0259 i\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131b g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u00c7\u0259tin \u015f\u0259raitdir, insanlar \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259kl\u0259 s\u0131na\u011fa \u00e7\u0259kilir, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin h\u0259r bir \u00fczv\u00fc \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259dir, b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259t ehtiyaclar iyerarxiyas\u0131n\u0131n yem\u0259k m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 saxlan\u0131l\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n yad\u0131na musiqi d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr, onlar azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n xo\u015f varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan x\u0259b\u0259rsizdirl\u0259r. X\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259r daim tirajlan\u0131r. Almaniya \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcr, Fransada liftl\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259mir,\u00a0 \u0130sve\u00e7r\u0259d\u0259 ba\u015fqa \u00f6lk\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar\u0131na nifr\u0259t p\u00fcsk\u00fcrd\u00fcl\u00fcr. Ard\u0131nca bizim \u00f6lk\u0259. Davaml\u0131 tikintil\u0259r, k\u0259sil\u0259n q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 lentl\u0259r, g\u00f6zqama\u015fd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 binalar\u2026\n<\/p>\n

\n H\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fcmid edir. Ki, onun qarn\u0131 ac ola bil\u0259r, amma \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc inki\u015faf var v\u0259 bir g\u00fcn o da bu inki\u015fafdan n\u0259sibini alacaq. Atam da bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Zat\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131lma m\u0259qs\u0259di d\u0259 m\u0259hz budur. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n ehtiyaclar iyerarxiyas\u0131n\u0131n dig\u0259r yuxar\u0131 pill\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259ri yoxdur. \u018fn a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131 bir tik\u0259 \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k ehtiyac\u0131 da tam \u00f6d\u0259nm\u0259diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu c\u00fcr na\u011f\u0131llar\u0131n daima deyilm\u0259si m\u0259qs\u0259dlidir. Sistemin mahiyy\u0259ti h\u0259m d\u0259 t\u0259rkibind\u0259ki insanlar\u0131n mahiyy\u0259tini d\u0259 ortaya qoyur. Sanki s\u0131naqd\u0131r. \u0130srafil \u00f6z surunu \u00e7al\u0131b, art\u0131q ana balayan yax\u0131n durmaq ist\u0259mir. V\u0259ziyy\u0259t getdikc\u0259 o h\u0259dd\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n

\n \u00c7\u00f6l\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xanda atam da davaml\u0131 z\u0259ng etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. On iki z\u0259ngd\u0259n sonra telefonu a\u00e7d\u0131m, \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 atam m\u0259ni 5 d\u0259qiq\u0259 dayanmadan s\u00f6yd\u00fc. Qulaqlar\u0131m\u0131n ara-s\u0131ra e\u015fitdiyi s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 bu d\u0259f\u0259 dil sakit dayanmad\u0131. “S\u0259ni \u00f6vladl\u0131qdan sil\u0259r\u0259m, ay o\u011fra\u015f. S\u0259n m\u0259ni h\u0259bs etdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259n? Ay t\u00fclk\u00fc! S\u0259nin kimi \u00f6vlad\u0131m yoxdur m\u0259nim!” Sakit s\u0259sl\u0259 “m\u0259nim d\u0259 s\u0259nin kimi atam yoxdur” dedim. \u00c7\u00fcnki ata \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fc. Qarda\u015f \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fc. Ana da \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fc. \u0130mtahan g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc. H\u0259r k\u0259s g\u00fcnahkar elan olunacaq adam\u0131 da\u015flama\u011fa haz\u0131r idi.\n<\/p>\n

\n Ata, ana v\u0259 qarda\u015f. T\u0259ki onlara he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmas\u0131n, onlar da\u015flanmas\u0131n. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qan ba\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ox \u015fey ifad\u0259 etmir. \u0130nsan valideynl\u0259rini \u00f6z\u00fc se\u00e7\u0259 bilmir. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r bizim dostumuz oldu\u011fu zaman bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259ziz olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. S\u0259nin h\u0259yat\u0131na m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 ed\u0259n, arzular\u0131na t\u00fcp\u00fcr\u0259n, \u00f6z uduzmu\u015flu\u011funu s\u0259ninl\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 qalibiyy\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n valideyn bizi kor yoxu\u015fa aparacaq, \u00f6zl\u0259ri kimi qabiliyy\u0259tsiz v\u0259 qorxaq n\u0259sil yeti\u015fdir\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 olsa, yenid\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259ti dazla\u015fma\u011f\u0131yla f\u0259xr ed\u0259n, i\u00e7ki i\u00e7m\u0259m\u0259yi, siqaret \u00e7\u0259km\u0259m\u0259yi \u0259n ali d\u0259y\u0259r hesab ed\u0259n,\u00a0 iyirmi be\u015find\u0259 50 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayan g\u0259ncl\u0259rl\u0259 dolub da\u015facaq. Bizim valideynl\u0259rimiz “atalar” olmayacaq, “ana” olmayacaq. Onlar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.\n<\/p>\n

\n Maksim Qorkinin Anas\u0131 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrd\u00fc, ancaq o\u011fluna inan\u0131rd\u0131. Bizim analar bizi ba\u015fa da d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, inanmayacaq da. Vacib olan \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259kdir. Onlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, bu \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yi ancaq ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sal\u0131b i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259 qazanmaq olar. Ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr is\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil v\u0259 h\u0259tta buna g\u00f6r\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn n\u0259sil \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bizim atalar\u0131m\u0131z Turgenevin atalar\u0131 da olmayacaq. Onlar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n onlardan daha ir\u0259lid\u0259, yenilik\u00e7i, c\u0259sar\u0259tli olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, onlar he\u00e7 vaxt \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 qalib g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Onlar\u0131n q\u0259lbi m\u0259\u011flub edilmi\u015f, ram edilmi\u015f q\u0259lbdir. G\u0259nclik ehtiras\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7\u0131l\u011f\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7ind\u0259 bo\u011fmu\u015f ata \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n c\u0259sar\u0259tin\u0259 tab g\u0259tir\u0259 bilm\u0259z.\n<\/p>\n

\n M\u0259n h\u0259min g\u00fcnd\u0259n etibar\u0259n b\u00fctov ail\u0259md\u0259n imtina etmi\u015f\u0259m. M\u0259nim ail\u0259m \u00fczv\u00fc oldu\u011fum t\u0259\u015fkilat, eyni yolda add\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u0259qid\u0259 yolda\u015flar\u0131md\u0131r.\u00a0 Qoy, lap onlar m\u0259ni n\u0259 vaxtsa yar\u0131yolda qoysun, ancaq m\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 inan\u0131ram. Qoy, n\u0259 vaxtsa m\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 bu i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kilim, sakitc\u0259 susub h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131m. Amma qoy bu m\u0259nim \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131m, \u00f6z arzular\u0131m, \u00f6z ist\u0259kl\u0259rim olsun. M\u0259n h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fayaraq \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m. M\u0259\u011flub edilmi\u015f insanlar\u0131n t\u0259lqiniyl\u0259 yox.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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