{"id":167327,"date":"2015-03-20T16:50:21","date_gmt":"2015-03-20T16:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meydan.tv\/article\/niye-evlenmirsen\/"},"modified":"2015-03-20T16:50:21","modified_gmt":"2015-03-20T16:50:21","slug":"niye-evlenmirsen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meydan.tv\/az\/article\/niye-evlenmirsen\/","title":{"rendered":"Niy\u0259 evl\u0259nmirs\u0259n?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\n Ya\u015f otuza yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131sa, camaat\u0131m\u0131z t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n k\u00fctl\u0259vi terrora m\u0259ruz qal\u0131rsan. Bu terrorun ad\u0131 niy\u0259 evl\u0259nmirs\u0259ndir. Ya\u015f otuz be\u015fi ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra terror daha da \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259nir. Ya\u015f q\u0131rxa yax\u0131nla\u015fanda v\u0259ziyy\u0259t d\u00f6z\u00fclm\u0259z \u015f\u0259kil al\u0131r.
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\n Ki\u015fil\u0259r yen\u0259 d\u0259 bu terrordan m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vasit\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini birt\u0259h\u0259r qoruyub sa\u011f qala bilirl\u0259r. Q\u0131zlar v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu terrordan qorunmaq daha \u00e7\u0259tindir. Bunun \u00e7ox sad\u0259 bir s\u0259b\u0259bi var. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, bizd\u0259 q\u0131z xeyla\u011f\u0131 vaxt\u0131nda \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 camaat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na d\u00fcrl\u00fc-d\u00fcrl\u00fc pis fikirl\u0259r girir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131zlar bu terrora d\u00f6zm\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6zl\u0259rini itirirl\u0259r. Ba\u015flar\u0131 pozulur. D\u0259li olurlar. \u0130ndi bizim \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131z v\u0259 qad\u0131n d\u0259li olub. Zarafat etmir\u0259m. Bir balaca \u0259traf\u0131 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edin. \u018fr\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259li olmu\u015f n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131z v\u0259 qad\u0131n g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259ksiniz.
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\n C\u0259miyy\u0259timiz ail\u0259siz adama qar\u015f\u0131 h\u0259ddsiz d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 q\u0259ddarl\u0131q n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirir. Onlar\u0131 \u0259n faci\u0259vi h\u0259yat s\u00fcjetl\u0259ri v\u0259 sonluqlarla qorxudurlar. Caamat\u0131m\u0131z s\u00f6z\u00fcn h\u0259qiqi m\u0259nas\u0131nda bekar\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qdan b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. Bekar\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qdan yaxa qurtarma\u011f\u0131n is\u0259 onlar yaln\u0131z bir yolunu bilirl\u0259r. Onun-bunun h\u0259yat\u0131na m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259k, h\u0259r \u015feyi x\u0131rda detallar\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k, m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259k.
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\n Pe\u015fmansan bir adamla iki d\u0259qiq\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259s\u0259n. Ail\u0259li olub-olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fur. \u201cYox\u201d cavab\u0131 ald\u0131qda el\u0259 bil onlara v\u0259hy g\u0259lir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, dan\u0131\u015fmaq v\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bundan g\u00f6z\u0259l m\u00f6vzu ola bil\u0259rmi?B\u0259h, b\u0259h, b\u0259h. S\u0259ni g\u00f6yd\u0259 axtar\u0131rd\u0131m, yerd\u0259 tapd\u0131m. Ba\u015flay\u0131rlar dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa. \u00d6z\u00fc d\u0259 \u00e7ox ilhamla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndan misallar g\u0259tirirl\u0259r. \u00d6z h\u0259yat f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Tez evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259 tez duran uduzmaz…
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\n S\u00f6hb\u0259tin hans\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 getm\u0259si adam\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r adam bir az savadl\u0131d\u0131rsa yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131lardan, filosoflardan sitat da g\u0259tirir. B\u00fct\u00fcn s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259ri bu c\u00fcr \u00fcmumil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k olar – yox, yox, evl\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131. Ail\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 \u015feydi. B\u0259s s\u0259n x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 kim baxacaq?\n<\/p>\n

\n Bir d\u0259f\u0259 Zaminl\u0259 bir t\u0259dbird\u0259 i\u015ftirak edirdik. Dayanm\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. V\u0259zif\u0259li ziyal\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zdan biri yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131 biz\u0259. Ba\u015flad\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa. Dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131, dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131… M\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verdi. Nec\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131n yolunu g\u00f6st\u0259rdi. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, \u00f6z k\u00f6l\u0259liyini \u0259sasland\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Bizim b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rimiz k\u00f6l\u0259lik haqq\u0131nda t\u0259limatlar\u0131na \u00f6y\u00fcd-n\u0259sih\u0259t ad\u0131 qoyublar. Bizi xeyli t\u0259limatland\u0131r\u0131b getdi. O vaxtlar m\u0259n g\u0259nc idim. M\u00fcdrikl\u0259\u015fm\u0259mi\u015fdim. S\u0259brin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilmirdim. M\u00fcbahis\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259, s\u00f6z g\u00fcl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 adam axtar\u0131rd\u0131m. Zaminin susmas\u0131, bizi t\u0259limatland\u0131ran adama cavab verm\u0259m\u0259si m\u0259n\u0259 toxundu. Adam ged\u0259nd\u0259n sonra Zamin\u0259 dedim:
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\n – S\u0259n niy\u0259 ona cavab verm\u0259din?
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\n – N\u0259 deyim ona? M\u0259n utan\u0131ram, amma o utanm\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n

\n \u00dcst\u00fcnd\u0259n on il ke\u00e7m\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq m\u0259n bu s\u00f6hb\u0259ti tez-tez xat\u0131rlay\u0131ram. M\u00fcxt\u0259lif yerl\u0259rd\u0259, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u015f\u0259raitl\u0259rd\u0259 az\u0131 y\u00fcz adama dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fam. \u0130ndi m\u0259n\u0259 dey\u0259nd\u0259 ki, s\u0259n filank\u0259s\u0259 niy\u0259 cavab verm\u0259din, Zaminin s\u00f6zl\u0259rini t\u0259krar edir\u0259m:
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\n – N\u0259 deyim ona? M\u0259n utan\u0131ram, amma o utanm\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n

\n \u00c7ox maraql\u0131d\u0131r, \u00f6mr\u00fcnd\u0259 be\u015f kitab oxumam\u0131\u015f m\u0259xluqlar, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, hans\u0131 haqqla y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 kitab oxumu\u015f adam\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131na qoyub m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verirl\u0259r? \u015e\u00fcur sar\u0131dan korluq \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bu varl\u0131qlar hans\u0131 haqqla adama nec\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259dirl\u0259r? Onlarda bu q\u0259d\u0259r inam, bu arxay\u0131n\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q hardand\u0131r? M\u0259nb\u0259yi n\u0259dir? Ax\u0131 insan h\u0259yas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n da bir s\u0259rh\u0259ddi olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Amma yox, \u015f\u00fcur sar\u0131dan korluq \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bu varl\u0131qlar \u00f6z dan\u0131\u015f\u0131qlar\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r ki, insan h\u0259yas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259rh\u0259ddi yoxdur. Onlara icaz\u0259 var. Hara q\u0259d\u0259r ist\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yas\u0131zl\u0131q ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Onlar\u0131n h\u0259yas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 s\u0131rt\u0131ql\u0131\u011f\u0131 sonsuzdur.
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\n S\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa, cavab verm\u0259y\u0259 utan\u0131rsan, o is\u0259 bunu raz\u0131l\u0131q \u0259lam\u0259ti kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r\u0259k daha da i\u015ftahla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Yas v\u0259 toy bunlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u0259n vacib hadis\u0259dir. Bir adam s\u00fcr\u00fcy\u0259 qo\u015fulmursa, rahatl\u0131q tapa bilmirl\u0259r. D\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 narahat olurlar. Onlar \u0259slind\u0259 ail\u0259nin g\u0259r\u0259kliliyi haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fanda \u00f6z m\u00f6vqel\u0259rini m\u00fcdafi\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 qatarda bir yol yolda\u015f\u0131m (he\u00e7 bilmir\u0259m ona yol yolda\u015f\u0131 dem\u0259k n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u00fczg\u00fcnd\u00fcr) can\u0131m\u0131 bo\u011faz\u0131ma y\u0131\u011fd\u0131. Can\u0131m\u0131 qurtarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b g\u00f6st\u0259rdims\u0259 ona kar etm\u0259di. Dedim:<\/p>\n

– Evim yoxdu.
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\n – N\u0259 olsun yoxdu. B\u0259y\u0259m ham\u0131n\u0131n evi var? Adamlar var ill\u0259rl\u0259 kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. \u018fsas mehriban\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131. \u0130ki q\u0259lb bir olsa samanl\u0131q seyran olar. Kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fayarsan. Sonra torpaq alarsan. Yava\u015f-yava\u015f ev tik\u0259rs\u0259n. Qohumlar da k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259r. Ham\u0131 bel\u0259 edir…\n<\/p>\n

\n Ba\u015flad\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 adamlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndan misallar g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259. Filank\u0259sin d\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 evi yox imi\u015f. Kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Sonra torpaq al\u0131b. Bir az da q\u0131z t\u0259r\u0259fi k\u00f6m\u0259k edib. Ba\u015flay\u0131b yava\u015f-yava\u015f ev tikm\u0259y\u0259. \u0130ndi \u0259m\u0259lli ba\u015fl\u0131 evi var. G\u00fcl kimi ya\u015fay\u0131r.\n<\/p>\n

\n Dem\u0259li, \u201cevim yoxdur\u201d bir s\u0259b\u0259b kimi i\u015f\u0259 yaramad\u0131. Dedim, q\u0131z tapm\u0131ram. Bu lap d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck s\u0259b\u0259b oldu. \u00c7\u00fcnki Az\u0259rbaycanda it\u0259 da\u015f at\u0131rsan, q\u0131za d\u0259yir. Milli ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 riay\u0259t ets\u0259n, q\u0131z tapmaq problem deyil. Onlara n\u0259 var, t\u0259ki \u0259yinl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259lin paltar\u0131 geyinsinl\u0259r. Lap he\u00e7 ki\u015fi olmas\u0131n, erk\u0259k mil\u00e7\u0259k olsun, g\u0259lin paltar\u0131 varsa \u0259ynin\u0259 taxma\u011fa m\u00fctl\u0259q q\u0131z tap\u0131lacaq. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u201cq\u0131z tapm\u0131ram\u201d s\u0259b\u0259bi onun daha i\u015ftahla dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yaratd\u0131. Ba\u015flad\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa. Bu m\u00f6vzuda da xeyli dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Halal s\u00fcd \u0259mmi\u015f zad v\u0259 sair\u0259 v\u0259 ilax\u0131r… H\u0259yas\u0131z olmas\u0131n. Ba\u015f\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olsun. Yax\u015f\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259n olsun. H\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259f q\u0131zd\u0131. \u0130st\u0259s\u0259n, taparsan. \u00d6z\u00fcn ist\u0259mirs\u0259n. Sual verdi:
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\n – Valideynl\u0259rin durur?
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\n Dedim:
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\n – Anam durur. Atam r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 gedib.
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\n – Allah r\u0259hm\u0259t el\u0259sin. B\u0259s ana n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fc? Den\u0259n, s\u0259n\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 bir q\u0131z taps\u0131n.\n<\/p>\n

\n Yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, nec\u0259 q\u0131z tapmaq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 fikirl\u0259r \u00e7ox m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdi. H\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z m\u00f6vqeyind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f edir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri deyir ki, \u0259sas odur, q\u0131z ba\u015f\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 q\u0131z olsun. B\u0259zil\u0259ri deyir ki, zir\u0259k, evdar q\u0131z almaq laz\u0131md\u0131. B\u0259zil\u0259ri deyir ki, yetim-yesirin, c\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131ndan cin h\u00fcrk\u0259nin q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 almaq laz\u0131m deyil. \u0130mkanl\u0131 ail\u0259nin q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, dar g\u00fcnd\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 arxa dayans\u0131nlar. Ev-e\u015fik sahibi etsinl\u0259r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri deyir ki, q\u0131z\u0131n sir-sif\u0259tin\u0259 fikir verm\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil. \u018fsas q\u0131z\u0131n m\u0259rif\u0259tidir. \u0130st\u0259s\u0259n gedib k\u0259narda kefini \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rs\u0259n.\n<\/p>\n

\n Qay\u0131daq yol yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n s\u00f6hb\u0259tin\u0259. Q\u0259r\u0259z, n\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b dedims\u0259, adama kar etm\u0259di. B\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r\u0259 cavab\u0131 vard\u0131. \u018fl \u00e7\u0259kmirdi. S\u00f6hb\u0259td\u0259n yay\u0131nmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn gedib tamburda siqaret \u00e7\u0259kirdim. Qay\u0131danda s\u00f6hb\u0259t\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015flay\u0131rd\u0131. Dedim ax\u0131, bu m\u0259xluqatlar \u00f6z s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 s\u00fcbut edirl\u0259r ki, h\u0259yas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u0259rh\u0259ddi yoxdur. \u0130ndi m\u0259n n\u0259 edim? Qatardan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, piyada gedim? Ax\u0131rda dedim ki, m\u0259n impotent\u0259m. Evl\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m. Bu da i\u015f\u0259 yaramad\u0131. Zarafat kimi q\u0259bul etdi. Bu adam\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda aciz idim.\n<\/p>\n

\n B\u0259y\u0259m bunlar\u0131n, bu \u015f\u00fcur sar\u0131dan korluq \u00e7\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259rin, \u00f6l\u00fc canlar\u0131n, m\u0259xluqatlar\u0131n say\u0131 birdir, ikidir,\u00fc\u00e7d\u00fcr? Bekar\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fanda \u00fczr ist\u0259yir\u0259m dey\u0259n, arvad\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259yi, dil\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259yi q\u0259bah\u0259t hesab ed\u0259n bu t\u0259rbiy\u0259sizl\u0259ri nec\u0259 dayand\u0131rmaq olar? G\u0259r\u0259k kobudluq ed\u0259s\u0259n, a\u011f\u0131r cavab qaytarasan. Bir az da h\u0259v\u0259sin olsa, onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn m\u0259nas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 s\u00fcbut ed\u0259s\u0259n. H\u0259yas\u0131zl\u0131qlar\u0131 s\u0259rh\u0259d tan\u0131mayan bu m\u0259xluqatlar ail\u0259nin g\u0259r\u0259kliliyi, vacibliyi haqq\u0131nda el\u0259 i\u015ftahla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ki, guya bel\u0259 \u00e7ox \u0259m\u0259lli-ba\u015fl\u0131 ail\u0259 sahibidirl\u0259r. \u00d6zl\u0259rini el\u0259 apar\u0131rlar, \u00f6zl\u0259rini el\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r, el\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, guya daha bunlar\u0131 tan\u0131yan, nec\u0259 ya\u015fmaqlar\u0131ndan x\u0259b\u0259ri olan yoxdur.
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\n T\u0259rbiy\u0259 verdikl\u0259ri, b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fckl\u0259ri u\u015faq g\u00f6z qaba\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Saxlad\u0131qlar\u0131 ail\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z qaba\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Toylar\u0131, ni\u015fanlar\u0131 da g\u00f6z qaba\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Y\u0259ni m\u0259n o q\u0259d\u0259r aciz adam oldum ki, bu boyda \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 bir q\u0131z tap\u0131b, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 arvad d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259 bilm\u0259dim? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 isti-soyu\u011fu var evl\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259yimin?\n<\/p>\n

\n Can\u0131n yan\u0131r? S\u0259mimiyy\u0259tiniz\u0259 inanm\u0131ram. Bir ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bu q\u0259d\u0259r israrla ist\u0259m\u0259yinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr\u0259m. Bel\u0259 insani kefiyy\u0259tl\u0259r sizl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil. B\u0259s n\u0259dir sizi narahat ed\u0259n? Bekar\u00e7\u0131l\u0131q. Niy\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259liy\u0259m? Kreditl\u0259 mebel, paltaryuyan ma\u015f\u0131n, qabyuyan ma\u015f\u0131n v\u0259 bir s\u00fcr\u00fc zir-zibil al\u0131b banklar\u0131n \u0259sirin\u0259 v\u0259 girovuna \u00e7evrilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn? Yaz\u0131 n\u0259dir, s\u0259n\u0259t n\u0259dir, \u0259d\u0259biyyat n\u0259dir qanmayan bir civiy\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn beynimin \u0259tini yedizdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn? Hans\u0131sa bir r\u00fc\u015fv\u0259txorun, yalta\u011f\u0131n, s\u0259viyy\u0259sizin birinin m\u0259n\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rilib, \u201cbax g\u00f6r ail\u0259sini nec\u0259 saxlay\u0131r?!\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc e\u015fitm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn? B\u00fct\u00f6v bir tayfan\u0131n, b\u00f6t\u00fcv bir n\u0259slin m\u0259nas\u0131z m\u0259rasiml\u0259rind\u0259, s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015ftirak etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn? H\u0259r bir h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bir s\u00fcr\u00fc adama hesabat verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn?\n<\/p>\n

\n Laz\u0131m deyil. \u0130st\u0259mir\u0259m. M\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tiniz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 qals\u0131n. Bizd\u0259 bir adamla ail\u0259 qurmursan. B\u00fct\u00f6v bir n\u0259sill\u0259, b\u00fct\u00f6v bir tayfayla ail\u0259 qurursan. Bo\u015fananda da g\u0259r\u0259k b\u00fct\u00f6v bir n\u0259sild\u0259n, b\u00fct\u00f6v bir tayfadan bo\u015fanasan. G\u0259tirdikl\u0259ri su t\u00f6kd\u00fckl\u0259ri zibili yuyub aparm\u0131r. \u018ftraf\u0131n\u0131za bax\u0131n. B\u0259y\u0259m onlar xo\u015fb\u0259xtdirl\u0259rmi? Mehriband\u0131rlarm\u0131? Yalandan klip\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259kl\u0259rini, yalandan \u00f6zl\u0259rini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259rini qoyun k\u0259nara, h\u0259qiq\u0259td\u0259 onlar nec\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar? \u0130t-pi\u015fik kimi. \u0130ntriqalar. S\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259r, dava-dala\u015flar. Bunu da norma kimi q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. \u018fr-arvad\u0131n dala\u015f\u0131, yaz g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn ya\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131. Ax\u0131 bu ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259, bu mentalitetl\u0259 nec\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ya\u015famaq olar? Bu q\u0259d\u0259r adam\u0131n n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 nec\u0259 rahatl\u0131q tapmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fc? M\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Amma onlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini el\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r, guya m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. H\u0259tta n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259ri bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi tap\u0131b. \u0130st\u0259yir ki, s\u0259n d\u0259 k\u0259narda qalmayasan. S\u0259n d\u0259 onlar kimi xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik tapasan. S\u0259n d\u0259 onlar kimi xo\u015fb\u0259xt olasan.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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